"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Beer pong = attention(?)

DJVladdy

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I love the game personally,
But also is it normal to be looked at by the chicks while playing? Or maybe I'm just being self conscious.

Or perhaps this IS a way to get attention from the females? Of course you have to not suck at it, lol.

You guys probably had something similar happen i guess.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hell yah. Beer pong is a great ice-breaker. People tend to cluster around others that are having fun, cracking jokes, etc., and beer pong is an easy way to do that. Besides I know of no better way to down a few beers quickly (for a noble cause of course), than beer pong.
 

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Of course, beer pong is my favorite way to gain attraction with girls. Not to brag, but I am amazing at beer pong:cool: I call my shots in the air, trash talk the other team, just generally be the life of the party running that dam table. Of course when your playing against two girls you bring all the shots out, watch them miss, and then get rapport with them after you beat them.:D Just play to the crowd man, even if your having an off game the chicas will still love it.

(P.S. I just finished winning 9 straight games of 10 cup before finally getting kicked off the table.)
 

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The girls don't even have to be playing. What's the first thing most people do when they go to a party? They go watch who's playing beer pong. It's where everything is centered around. I've noticed this too. That's why I always try and get a game going before the ladies arrive. While your playing you kind of get a feel for the chick. And you won't look like a ***** for immediately talking to them because you're "busy" so you gain a lot more information about your target. (If she has a bf.. if she's a shy.. who her friends are.. what makes her laugh..) And it's a great way to show off your alphaness when you start trash talking the other time and getting ****y. Great for DHV. All in all, I've only had good things come from BP, and it's just a fun game to play in general.
 

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yea, I wouldnt say that im amazing at the game, but I do play. I keep the trash talking out or at a minimum though. I personally think beating the other team says more than enough instead of being obnoxious about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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