"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Beer Goggles in field

How much do you drinki when you go out

  • I don't drink anything(top of my game)

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • 1-3 drinks

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • 3-6 drinks

    Votes: 2 22.2%
  • 6-9 drinks

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • 9+ drinks

    Votes: 4 44.4%
  • 9+ drinks and drugs (weed, coke, x)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    9

Solomon

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So last night I went on a date with a girl I met on friday at the bar, she looked like this when I met her

http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQxtnC75TjnjMZGfDYe_-AzOWLED0283cIJuGzVAUsCMB3Jg0S_

But then when I saw her agian she ended up looking like this

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_C0PHWYLsOdc/TOsRfHB9_mI/AAAAAAAAAeM/_aBjpW1c23w/s1600/blog+5+fat+woman.jpg

Too add insult to injury she brings her grenade friend with her, the date was very awkward. The girl had no personality what so ever was very rigid. I could tell her friend felt bad for me(since she tried carrying most of the conversation)

Long story short I booked it after one drink, gotta remember to keep that drinking low and start asking for pics before I go on these dates
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth

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*goggles :up:
 

NobodyCares1

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yeah happened to me too that she looked hotter when I met her for the first time drunk, but never this much of a difference, usually she looked maybe just a bit worse but still was good looking
 

Deep Dish

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PapiChulo

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For me certain parts of a woman become more attractive, and certain not so much, e.i. crooked teeth and such, as I fixate on them. You also have to remember that you may or may not be pleasantly surprised when the clothes come of as well.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fly By Night

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PapiChulo said:
For me certain parts of a woman become more attractive, and certain not so much, e.i. crooked teeth and such, as I fixate on them. You also have to remember that you may or may not be pleasantly surprised when the clothes come of as well.
That's so true. Watch for little love handles at the sides of her waist right above her pants. I remember making out with this one chick who had a slight case of 'em, and as soon as I unbuttoned her pants, her curve just rounded out and her natural figure just made my d!ck go back to sleep LOL.
 

MM92

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When I go out I go out to have fun with my friends, not to primarily pick up women. They seem to sense that and it comes off as creepy. My friends and I still have had relative success despite the heavy drinking, although I admit a few I would never have looked at sober
 
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