"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Beer and Feeling Full

jlazz

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Okay lately when I've been drinking beer, I've been getting full pretty quickly. Its a crappy feeling and when you try to drink more it just won't let you. Any tips on preventing feeling full? It sucks when you're playing a drinking game and this happens...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jlazz

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Yeah, well beer is a lot cheaper and common among parties and such..and you can't play drinking games w/ cognac. So I'd like some tips on this.
 

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Drink slower. When you start feeling full it's because the carbonated beer is expanding in your stomache. The faster you drink it the more it expands. Also if you're playing drinking games be sure you're drinking games. Its hard to play a drinking game with a stout ale :D
 

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Drinking games are daft. Drink beer and enjoy it like a man.

Try whisky, or bitter as good alternatives if you're feeling full too easy. I like to alternate between scotch and lager.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Look being in college I play drinking games all the time. There's no way around it really. Best things you can do is play with the light beers and also drink some water on the side. That way u pee it out quick and is gonna be ready for the next round.
 

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Monster said:
Look being in college I play drinking games all the time. There's no way around it really. Best things you can do is play with the light beers and also drink some water on the side. That way u pee it out quick and is gonna be ready for the next round.
So it depends on how fast you're digesting it? If you eat a big meal before hand, it slows down the process? As a result, you'll stay full longer?

What do you suggest eating before playing? I always drink light beer, still doesn't work. I don't feel full often though, just that 1 time.
 

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you pee thats what you do... Ive downed 16 or more beers no problem but im constantly going to pee when i drink that much.
 
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