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Been talking to this girl online for awhile. has bf. how do i get some.

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OK basically this girl messaged me first, asking if I would like to make a new friend, so i said yea, and we've been talking for awhile. talked abit about her bf who moved from florida to ny and has a kid in florida, she met him online. the we talked a bit how im in school, and she is 19 still in gr 12 cause she had to do another yr so i teased her abit on that, then we moved on to dating/relationships and I asked her what girls think is a good first date or whatever and how I thought they didn't like movies too much since you can't talk, and she sort of agreed, but said that she didn't mind too much that the guy took her on a movie for their first date, since that was like basically her first ever date or something along those lines, then we got to talking about how I hated winter, and that turned into her suggesting we go to a beach, so I said sure, but that'll be awhile (cause it's winter), then she goes "im serious", so I said yea for sure when it gets warmer. So then I get to talking about my exam stress, and she says something about her thinking I'm smart, and if she didn't then she wouldn't be talking to me this long, so I go "yea you're right we have been talking for awhile, we should get together sometime after my the holidays/exams in early january (this was before xmas last year), and she goes "yea I'd like that"

I was going to post all the things that we said in like a chat log, but the older ones got erased so this is just what was left up till now. This was after she ahd said she'd like to meet up later, and I asked her if she knew how to drive or was "the bus services #1 customer" she said she couldn't and I said I couldn't either and needed to get on that..

HER me neither.
you're not alone lol

ME Ok thats good to know. hah btw have you seen that video 2girls1cup? lol my friend told me about it and ran it on his computer : (

HER lmao! I watched like the first 10 seconds to see what all the hype was about and I nearly threw up. It's disgusting, what would possess two girls to do such a thing? Not just that, what would possess people to actually sit through the whole thing?

ME lol don't lie. i know you enjoyed it. the part where the girl shat out the scoop onto the cone and they both started licking it was just a nice scene of two girls enjoying a delicious treat. like sharing an ice cream on a hot summer day.

HER lmao oh shut up =p

ME lol nice visual huh? ahhh im so happy right now. just finished my exams and im heading out to ny on saturday with my family for the holidays. so what about you? you got any plans? or are you just gonna stay home watching 2girls1cup over and over again : )

HER lmao stop bringing it up! haha
you're a joker.
um.. saturday I'm doing some last minute stuff for christmas
sunday, I'm travelling out to give my boyfriend his
gift [ he bought me the new ipod btw, ingraved and everything, I was PRETTY surprised lmao ]
and then christmas eve, and christmas. =]

after about a week or two when I was away and got back

ME nice, thats a pretty sick gift. you're talking about the itouch right? he must really love you :) i see a wedding in the near future :p

happy new year btw

HER yepp the itouch haha.
I hope he loves me lol
and a wedding? you serious? haha
we'll see, I'll invite you if it happens ;]

happy new year to you too =D



So at this point, I'm thinking just asking her to a movie date and meeting her there at the theatre and then doing what I read in a thread about just kino escalating/making out and leading to more. any other ideas? Also was talking about her BF a bad thing? Did I maybe get friend zoned already? She messaged me first, and during the convo mentioned how I was smart and cute, and basically was the first one to mention a meet with the whole beach idea. so any thoughts/ideas/tips? She lives in another city thats pretty close by a 20 min drive or so but we both can't drive.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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you care too much about a girl who is already taken - focus on girls who give u big time interest and who are SINGLE

id shoot you in the balls if i was her bf
 

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fruitopaix, you may be interested in her, but she is clearly uninterested in you.
 

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hah btw have you seen that video 2girls1cup?

yuck, no, bad convo idea....bad

Make a little friend date, then try to make a move. Then forget about her forever if she rejects you.
 

fruitopiax

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AFC Savior said:
you care too much about a girl who is already taken - focus on girls who give u big time interest and who are SINGLE

id shoot you in the balls if i was her bf
what makes you say that?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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go for a single girl

and if in the future you hook up w/ a chick that's taken, it should feel effortless and convenient. you shouldn't be acting like a sociopath scheming on how you're gonna fvck her
 
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