Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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been getting called "nice" lately

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I've been getting called nice by females lately. These are females that work in the same store as me. I keep a rule of thumb not to date anyone in the place I work at. I'm not sure how to think of this. I'm conflicted because in one hand, I feel being kind to one another is a virtue while on the other hand I feel being nice is not a masculine trait and I need to assert myself a bit more dominating. Is there a difference between someone who is genuinely nice and a "nice guy"?

I'm posting from my phone. This just the gist of it. I could get into more details if requested.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When "girls" and "women" say "nice" it means a different thing the manosphere "nice guy".

Sometimes "nice" means sexy and makes her feel good. It's a recommendation for others to phug with you.
 

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There is nothing work with being 'nice'. Being NICE is actually a good thing because then woman will trust you.

There is a difference between being nice (i.e. friendly with manners) and being an agreeable needy hyper-pleasing little b!tch. The key to staying out of the latter catogory is to not bee too available, never ask for help, and NEVER offer any.

Be friendly, polite and put out the vibe that you want to fvck the women you are interested in and you will do just fine.
 
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Being "nice" might mean they really like you and your so "sweet" that they want to suck on your c0ck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB: "Lefty you are nice"

Lefty: "Don't tell anyone, you will ruin my reputation"

HB: "oh yeah how so?"

Lefty: "You will have to figure that out on your own. I am a man of many mysteries"
 

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SeymourCake said:
Is there a difference between someone who is genuinely nice and a "nice guy"?
First off, you're not going to date these girls by your own admission, so why do you care?

Secondly, yes there is a huge difference between someone who is genuinely nice and the manosphere's stereotypical "nice guy". The manosphere's nice guy is actually not a nice guy at all, in fact he's more of a jerk.

Third, think of it like publicity. Don't worry about what they're saying about you, just the fact that they are talking about you (or to you) is good.
 
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zekko said:
First off, you're not going to date these girls by your own admission, so why do you care?

Secondly, yes there is a huge difference between someone who is genuinely nice and the manosphere's stereotypical "nice guy". The manosphere's nice guy is actually not a nice guy at all, in fact he's more of a jerk.

Third, think of it like publicity. Don't worry about what they're saying about you, just the fact that they are talking about you (or to you) is good.
They're gonna want to find out why your nice. Maybe it's because you place that pipe on them with surgical precision. Make that the reason your nice.
 

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zekko said:
Secondly, yes there is a huge difference between someone who is genuinely nice and the manosphere's stereotypical "nice guy". The manosphere's nice guy is actually not a nice guy at all, in fact he's more of a jerk.
True, in this context the 'Nice-guy' is a passive aggressive dishonest little @ss. He is manipuilative and conniving fool. Because he isn't kidding anyone, especially women. Women have a 6th sence when it comes to men, and they instinctively know that the "nice-guy" isn't nice at all, that is why 'nice-guys' finish last.
 
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RangerMIke said:
True, in this context the 'Nice-guy' is a passive aggressive dishonest little @ss. He is manipuilative and conniving fool. Because he isn't kidding anyone, especially women. Women have a 6th sence when it comes to men, and they instinctively know that the "nice-guy" isn't nice at all, that is why 'nice-guys' finish last.
There are actual "nice guys" who are retarded in this manner and get taken advantage of by predatory females.

I know you guys like to put a "hot girl" on a pedestal, but they don't get like that on accident, and it's not to be done so the female can be more caring, loving and giving. They want freebies, they want men to grovel to kiss their a$$es, to get over on people.

So yeah, there are "nice guys" in the passive aggressive sense who are really some real a-holes.

but there are other "nice guys" who are retarded like this, and put women on this pedestal and doesn't understand his actions cannot be successful with this type of woman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone on this board wants to be douchebag bad boy.

Just because you think women only like azz holes doesn't mean you should become one. I thought a real DJ does exactly what he wants regardless of what people think.
 
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skinnyguy said:
Everyone on this board wants to be douchebag bad boy.

Just because you think women only like azz holes doesn't mean you should become one. I thought a real DJ does exactly what he wants regardless of what people think.
And a real DJ has immense confidence in himself and his c0ck and it draws the babes in.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I know you guys like to put a "hot girl" on a pedestal, but they don't get like that on accident, and it's not to be done so the female can be more caring, loving and giving. They want freebies, they want men to grovel to kiss their a$$es, to get over on people.
NO woman should ever be put on a pedestal. The man must be the leader, the woman must look up at him. All that is manosphere 101. If you know nothing else, know that.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Everyone on this board wants to be douchebag bad boy.

Just because you think women only like azz holes doesn't mean you should become one. I thought a real DJ does exactly what he wants regardless of what people think.

This right here. Do what you want. Act nice or be an asshat, both whatever do it up, who cares.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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