Hi Guys,
I was looking around the net and found this site. I think a lot of the guys on here give good solid advice so I figured I would post my questions here.
First off Ive been doing pick up since 2009 and have gotten pretty decent at it. There are some things I would like to discuss about the community but that will be in another post. So here is the deal with this one girl. I'll keep it short and to the point.
1. met her on Match.com and meet up with her cause I have free tickets to a basketball game (I get to go to home games free) so I figure why not, its fun anyway. She's hot and we hand out and have a good time, I make her kiss me on the cheek before she leaves (just having fun. she seems normal)
2. We text a lot she starts going sexual with her texts and I go ahead and play along with them. We meet up again and go out to bars and I'm acting like the worlds large ******* to her.. She is being very "I'm the hottest" so I just don't really care and be a douche bag.. I try and kiss her and she give me the lips forward smootchy kiss... I make fun of her for it and we move venue.. I don't really care...now here is where it starts getting interesting.
She starts talking about sex and her fake boobs a TON and shows me pictures of herself half naked... I'm like "ya cool whatever".. At this point I'm go for a make out.. sure.. She still gives me the "Smootchy" thing and I'm like "give me a real ****ing kiss" and basically make her kiss me.. Then she proceeds to go sexual, talking wise, and I'm starting to get this "she is toying with me feeling" and basically become a complete douche bag.. I just feel like i'm being played. We talk in my care and make out.. she talks about how she has lotion that makes good lube... I'm say ok lets go back to your place.. she's says no its messy and so I say "ok then leave"... we make out and I send her on her way..
3. She texts me the next night and for like the next five days.. Super sexual on the texting.. Sends me a pick of her legs in the bath tub cause i tell her to send me a pic of her in the bath.. (she was talking about her wet body).. I didn't reply to that one after the pic. Later I respond and don't respond to messages over the next 5 days.. and eventually she tells me to come over on thursday night at like 11:30.. I think "sexy times" i go over and get in her bed.. She is laying away form me... I try to make out she and just lays there like a statue.. doesn't move... I make her make out with me.. Like literally grab her face and make her kiss me... she does and doesn't say anything... I grab her tits and get the karate chop of defense.. You know the one. So I'm like ok whatever and talk to her for a bit.. It's pitch black can't see anything so its not exciting for me anyway... Oh ya and this whole time i am being a complete douche.. she says you can't go down there I'm have a tampon and I tell her "thats disgusting".. I laugh a lot and have a great time. She talks about her multiple exes a bunch and says things like "what if I just started masturbating right now" I'm just honest... "That would be hot but gross cause your on your period".. and fall asleep (not spooning fyi) Oh and she says something about some other guy giving her a massage earlier that night.. but I honestly don't believe half the things she says (she never stops talking) and so I'm just like ok ya whatever.
Next day I wake up and think "screw this crap" so I wrestle with her (I can see now so its much more exciting for me)" I pull down her shirt and grab her tits.. bite her.. make her kiss me... pin her down and kiss her.. she is giving resistance... she looks at the scar on my chest and says "is this where they took out your heart cause your such an Ass-hole".. i say "no its where they replaced it with a black shriveled one... how do you think I got this way" ... so anyway we go with this for like an hour... She finally starts playing back and trying to grab my ****... so evade her and do what she did to me.. Finally i give up on this game... (oh and she tells me that she gets like 15 messages a day from dudes on Match and she like to read their pathetic messages) So i walk around and make fun of her.. eat her food.. push her over and the like.. basic douche bag behavior.. Finally i got to leave and say..You still want to hang out tonight.. She says "i have to work tomorrow so lets see how I feel" I go to leave and give her a hug... She gives me a big fat pitty pat that feels like "ok buddy see ya later... not" I say "Don't pitty pat me" She does it again and so I just leave.. That was friday around 11 and I haven't contacted her and she hasn't contacted me... Its now Sunday around noon..
So here is my take..
I was being more of a douche then have ever.. But I really felt like she was trying to use me in some way.. So i just did whatever I felt like and treated her like she was acting.. Like a complete worthless slut.
I think
1. she is a slut
2. She is trying to get validation
3. She is actually crazy or something
4. Completely full of **** and has 0 real friends.
5. Is hot and get a ton of attention
6. I just want to bang her.. she had nice tits.. she is a strange person.
What do you guys think. I mean I've been sad, pissed, then indifferent about this chick and its just sapping my energy. But i really would like to bang her or make her into a F-buddy if I could.
Ive managed to stop any thoughts about a future with her (something I've gotten good at over time.. So It just this feeling in my stomach throughout the day of wanting and a fear of rejection. Ive been working on being outcome independent and not giving a **** and serving my own interests.) On a side note it seems whenever a get a hot girl I ALWAYS get the Smootchy kiss and not the real one... like EVERY TIME. WTF? why is that?
Jesus this really long. sorry guys! thanks for any replays. :rockon:
Jackson
I was looking around the net and found this site. I think a lot of the guys on here give good solid advice so I figured I would post my questions here.
First off Ive been doing pick up since 2009 and have gotten pretty decent at it. There are some things I would like to discuss about the community but that will be in another post. So here is the deal with this one girl. I'll keep it short and to the point.
1. met her on Match.com and meet up with her cause I have free tickets to a basketball game (I get to go to home games free) so I figure why not, its fun anyway. She's hot and we hand out and have a good time, I make her kiss me on the cheek before she leaves (just having fun. she seems normal)
2. We text a lot she starts going sexual with her texts and I go ahead and play along with them. We meet up again and go out to bars and I'm acting like the worlds large ******* to her.. She is being very "I'm the hottest" so I just don't really care and be a douche bag.. I try and kiss her and she give me the lips forward smootchy kiss... I make fun of her for it and we move venue.. I don't really care...now here is where it starts getting interesting.
She starts talking about sex and her fake boobs a TON and shows me pictures of herself half naked... I'm like "ya cool whatever".. At this point I'm go for a make out.. sure.. She still gives me the "Smootchy" thing and I'm like "give me a real ****ing kiss" and basically make her kiss me.. Then she proceeds to go sexual, talking wise, and I'm starting to get this "she is toying with me feeling" and basically become a complete douche bag.. I just feel like i'm being played. We talk in my care and make out.. she talks about how she has lotion that makes good lube... I'm say ok lets go back to your place.. she's says no its messy and so I say "ok then leave"... we make out and I send her on her way..
3. She texts me the next night and for like the next five days.. Super sexual on the texting.. Sends me a pick of her legs in the bath tub cause i tell her to send me a pic of her in the bath.. (she was talking about her wet body).. I didn't reply to that one after the pic. Later I respond and don't respond to messages over the next 5 days.. and eventually she tells me to come over on thursday night at like 11:30.. I think "sexy times" i go over and get in her bed.. She is laying away form me... I try to make out she and just lays there like a statue.. doesn't move... I make her make out with me.. Like literally grab her face and make her kiss me... she does and doesn't say anything... I grab her tits and get the karate chop of defense.. You know the one. So I'm like ok whatever and talk to her for a bit.. It's pitch black can't see anything so its not exciting for me anyway... Oh ya and this whole time i am being a complete douche.. she says you can't go down there I'm have a tampon and I tell her "thats disgusting".. I laugh a lot and have a great time. She talks about her multiple exes a bunch and says things like "what if I just started masturbating right now" I'm just honest... "That would be hot but gross cause your on your period".. and fall asleep (not spooning fyi) Oh and she says something about some other guy giving her a massage earlier that night.. but I honestly don't believe half the things she says (she never stops talking) and so I'm just like ok ya whatever.
Next day I wake up and think "screw this crap" so I wrestle with her (I can see now so its much more exciting for me)" I pull down her shirt and grab her tits.. bite her.. make her kiss me... pin her down and kiss her.. she is giving resistance... she looks at the scar on my chest and says "is this where they took out your heart cause your such an Ass-hole".. i say "no its where they replaced it with a black shriveled one... how do you think I got this way" ... so anyway we go with this for like an hour... She finally starts playing back and trying to grab my ****... so evade her and do what she did to me.. Finally i give up on this game... (oh and she tells me that she gets like 15 messages a day from dudes on Match and she like to read their pathetic messages) So i walk around and make fun of her.. eat her food.. push her over and the like.. basic douche bag behavior.. Finally i got to leave and say..You still want to hang out tonight.. She says "i have to work tomorrow so lets see how I feel" I go to leave and give her a hug... She gives me a big fat pitty pat that feels like "ok buddy see ya later... not" I say "Don't pitty pat me" She does it again and so I just leave.. That was friday around 11 and I haven't contacted her and she hasn't contacted me... Its now Sunday around noon..
So here is my take..
I was being more of a douche then have ever.. But I really felt like she was trying to use me in some way.. So i just did whatever I felt like and treated her like she was acting.. Like a complete worthless slut.
I think
1. she is a slut
2. She is trying to get validation
3. She is actually crazy or something
4. Completely full of **** and has 0 real friends.
5. Is hot and get a ton of attention
6. I just want to bang her.. she had nice tits.. she is a strange person.
What do you guys think. I mean I've been sad, pissed, then indifferent about this chick and its just sapping my energy. But i really would like to bang her or make her into a F-buddy if I could.
Ive managed to stop any thoughts about a future with her (something I've gotten good at over time.. So It just this feeling in my stomach throughout the day of wanting and a fear of rejection. Ive been working on being outcome independent and not giving a **** and serving my own interests.) On a side note it seems whenever a get a hot girl I ALWAYS get the Smootchy kiss and not the real one... like EVERY TIME. WTF? why is that?
Jesus this really long. sorry guys! thanks for any replays. :rockon:
Jackson
