"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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been dating and shes dropping every hint apart from the "official chat"

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as above really how does this all work, apparently i didnt realise the male doesnt ask? or have i read that wrong!

or is there a "WAY OF ASKING"

so far the power is fully mine so to speak and shes a strong minded woman, but theres children involved so its not like we can carry on like young lovers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Of course you can carry on as young lovers. Dont change a thing if its working.

And the "what are we" and the "exclusive talk" should only come from a woman's mouth. Period.
 
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derby1 said:
as above really how does this all work, apparently i didnt realise the male doesnt ask? or have i read that wrong!

or is there a "WAY OF ASKING"

so far the power is fully mine so to speak and shes a strong minded woman, but theres children involved so its not like we can carry on like young lovers
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The guy doesnt make it his idea or else you defeat challenge. If she brings it up that is ok. Your job is to have sex with her. Her job is to turn it into a relationship if that is what you BOTH want.

You continue doing what you are comfortable doing. You lead. She follows. You lead. You lead! You lead!

She marches to the beat of your drum.
 
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words of wisdom men.......very true it aint broke i wont fix
 
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Nothing actually changes when you're "exclusive." It's just a title... You really shouldn't treat her any different just because of a title.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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