been dating and shes dropping every hint apart from the "official chat"

[derby1]

as above really how does this all work, apparently i didnt realise the male doesnt ask? or have i read that wrong!

or is there a "WAY OF ASKING"

so far the power is fully mine so to speak and shes a strong minded woman, but theres children involved so its not like we can carry on like young lovers

 

[Glassguy]

Of course you can carry on as young lovers. Dont change a thing if its working.

And the "what are we" and the "exclusive talk" should only come from a woman's mouth. Period.

 

[dude99]

as above really how does this all work, apparently i didnt realise the male doesnt ask? or have i read that wrong!

or is there a "WAY OF ASKING"

so far the power is fully mine so to speak and shes a strong minded woman, but theres children involved so its not like we can carry on like young lovers

The guy doesnt make it his idea or else you defeat challenge. If she brings it up that is ok. Your job is to have sex with her. Her job is to turn it into a relationship if that is what you BOTH want.

You continue doing what you are comfortable doing. You lead. She follows. You lead. You lead! You lead!

She marches to the beat of your drum.

 

[derby1]

words of wisdom men.......very true it aint broke i wont fix

 

[Skyline]

Nothing actually changes when you're "exclusive." It's just a title... You really shouldn't treat her any different just because of a title.