"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ImprovingJuan

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to the point that i dont want to be with her anymore. i may not be the hottest guy around so someone could say, maybe you shouldnt be picky but the thing is i am. if by the third date the click still doesnt happen then something must be wrong. i dont feel attracted to her, i dont feel motivated to be with her.

i prefer to hang out with friends or stay at home than being with her, our phone convos bore me to death. did this happen to any of you guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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No it doesn't happen to me.

This is because i screen girls for at least 2 months before i commit to them and thus i weed out any boring chicks from the potential list of girls whom i will consider making my girlfriend... Duh..
 
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Yep happend to me about 4 times last year because i was jumping into things too quickly and not even understanding what i wanted from a woman

Also realised ive become far too accustomed to my free time and don’t want some worthless bish nagging me to do stuff all the time

It wont get any better son get rid of her
 
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Bingo-Player said:
Yep happend to me about 4 times last year because i was jumping into things too quickly and not even understanding what i wanted from a woman

Also realised ive become far too accustomed to my free time and don’t want some worthless bish nagging me to do stuff all the time

It wont get any better son get rid of her
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah man. Last month alone I dated 3 boring girls. I hadn't dated for some time and was desperate to get some experience under my belt. I guess I just made myself "go out there" and "exploit opportunities".

But yeah, it's stupid. Now that my appearance has improved, most girls will actually say yes, even though we're not really connecting. And then be strangely passive all the time. I could probably "run some game" just to have sex. I've done that, just to prove that I could. But I'm not happier now.

That is my new goal, find more GREAT women, where there's real mutual attraction.
 
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