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Been a long time, but advice needed

donjuanapprentice01

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Whats up bros! Been a long long time since I was on this site, but let me tell you guys, it helped me out big time, and I continue to keep on learning from it!

So, since the last time I posted on here, I have changed dramatically. I learned the ways, got myself a nice, busty gal that i f*** about 10 to 15 times per week easy. My sex life is great! So, why am I posting on here you may ask? Well here goes it.

Fact is, my current gf of close to 4 years is starting to push me for the RING RING. Problem is, I really don't see myself marrying this girl. The sex is great and all, but the problem is her personality. No one in my family likes her. None of my friends like her. She is very needy, clingy and texts and calls me constantly. If I go to a game with my dad, she gets *****y because she wasnt invited, that kind of crap. I usually ignore her, she will cry and pout, but at the end of the day I go see her, talk for 5 minutes and we end up banging. So, while I love the sex, this is a low quality broad here.

Now, here is where it gets tricky folks. Her friend has taken an interest in me lately. I know, avoid oneitis, and its easy considering the play I get, but man oh man, her friend is nearly perfect. She is almost a mirror image of me. When me, my gal and her friend hang out, I am almost 90% of the time talking to her friend. Last Saturday, I put some moves up, rubbed her hand, held the lower part of her back, hell I even kissed her. So there might be something there.

It gets tricky because I confessed to my gal about the feelings I had for her friend. She told her friend, who pretty much brushed her off, but since then she has been texting me daily. The friend is currently in a brutal relationship. The guy is basically a low life and doesnt treat her well. He does **** like take her ring he bought her, then gives it back, takes it back, etc.. They were recently living together, but now he is moving out because he cant afford rent and he is in a ton of debt. I think she wants out of that relationship, and is looking for a way out. And no, she isnt staying with this guy for the sex, because she says she barely gets any in the first place.

Anyways, enough about that. Fact is, I am starting to want to settle down and I am looking for that person that I can eventually marry. And this is the kind of girl I can see myself with. Good home, great job, has her **** together, etc...

What would be the best way of handling this situation? The fact that this girl is my gf's friend makes it very tricky.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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The whole thing will fail of you leave your gf for this girl. I guarantee it. If you've been with the girl for 4 years, don't keep leading her on, be upfront with her and tell her you don't see yourself marrying her. But my bet is, you do this, and she'll move on a lot quicker than you think. There is nothing wrong with a needy girl. Some awesome women need lots of assurance and attention. You say her personality sucks, perhaps you are right she may be low quality, but be prepared to loose her for good and loose the other girl for good as well if you make a move on her friend.
 

VladPatton

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Time to upgrade to the better chick. Girls do this on a regular basis without any remorse. I'm pretty sure it's been done to you in the past, so I say go for the hotter friend. If anything, you get rid of the busty ring chaser.
 
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