bedroom troubles...

[nightcrawler]

I've only had 4 sexual partners so far so I don't have much experience. The first loved every minute of my dirty talk, the 2nd one happened whilst drunk and she was soo turned on that she had to finish herself in the bathroom (I have seriously never met a girl as wet as this one..)..however next time we had sober sex it sucked because I was nervous. and the third one was just a 1 night stand that I can't even remember...but the fourth one really confused me..

I drity talked to her and she didn't reciprocate (no responses or nothing...)....I tried eating her out (mind you I'm probly not very very good at that...) and fingered her and no moans were coming out of her...aren't they supposed to moan a bit even if they don't enjoy it as much? this seriously FREAKED me out and I started getting extremely anxious....so much that we got our clothes back on/

we gave it another try and it went a little better...she finally asked me to stick it in and I did it...but by this point I was so turned off and freaking out over not being a good lover that I just put on my pants in the middle of ****ing and left. It was embarrassing..

did she give me pity sex? did she suck in bed? Also should I stop dirty talking? does it only work when you are drunk?

 

[Commandante]

check this one out

 

[Cinamon]

I can understand how the fourth would have confused you and left u anxious. Did she not even try to guide you in to pleasing her? She probably didnt want it, i have no explanation for her behaviour.

Dirty talk is good, and u can tell from the facial expressions how this is going down with the girl and whether you should continue or not.

You let the second one go to the bathroom to finish off, not a good move. You ask her to do it on the bed, and watch how she plays with herself and learn from there, play with her breasts, kiss her as she is doing so.

When your first starting off, and gaining ur bedroom skills, encourage her to play with herself, and u will learn what works for most women. Also, vary ur techniques and assess the different responses u get to each. It may not be fun, but if u spend a bit more attention observing how u can trigger and push womens buttons, you will improve, and the better u give the better u get.

As for the last woman, on some levels she sounds like a real cow bag, dont let anyone knock ur confidence.

 

[nightcrawler]

I can understand how the fourth would have confused you and left u anxious. Did she not even try to guide you in to pleasing her? She probably didnt want it, i have no explanation for her behaviour.

Dirty talk is good, and u can tell from the facial expressions how this is going down with the girl and whether you should continue or not.

You let the second one go to the bathroom to finish off, not a good move. You ask her to do it on the bed, and watch how she plays with herself and learn from there, play with her breasts, kiss her as she is doing so.

When your first starting off, and gaining ur bedroom skills, encourage her to play with herself, and u will learn what works for most women. Also, vary ur techniques and assess the different responses u get to each. It may not be fun, but if u spend a bit more attention observing how u can trigger and push womens buttons, you will improve, and the better u give the better u get.

As for the last woman, on some levels she sounds like a real cow bag, dont let anyone knock ur confidence.

nope..all she said was "stick three fingers" and orgasmed from that, though I'm pretty sure she faked it.

 

[scrouds]

well we were just talking about dirty talking in another thread. I think though you're using it to boost yourself up for it, to make it happen at all. Build up whatever confidence you can muster.

Some biitches are just boring in bed.

You know what's a real confidence booster..... get a ONS or someone that you just really don't care about, and do whatever you want. Don't worry at all about getting her off or anything. Just get what you want and bail. Repeat to your self: I am man, give me what i want.

After that, once you've realized your power, you can go back to working on how to get a woman off, as a treat for them giving you want you want.