Bedroom game - let her call the shots?

[Scormus]

So ended up meeting my LTR in the morning after her work so we could bang.

She complained that sometimes I leave her hanging by finishing before she could.

I had been using the Roosh recommendation for players: just bang her hard, focus on my own pleasure and never ask her if she came.

This time she started calling the shots and complained a couple of times when I deviated from instructions.

Is this ok, I find it exciting (I get off on ******) but does her respect and interest level lower over time if I play along.

I had thought they want to be taken and used for our pleasure?

 

[AttackFormation]

Roosh is so full of ****... of course they want to come too. It's just the way you do it that matters.

 

[MtnMan]

remember, roosh is the master of the ONS or short term dating. You might have different sexual considerations for an LTR. Personally, I prefer to get her to cvm if possible.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Scormus,
Every Girl is different....The best way to maintain a good Svexual Relationship is to communicate,and take instructions...you can't be a mind reader...Massive differences in needs,some like it rough,most prefer a slow lover...This can be very confusing at times,because our instinct is to create a routine if you are spinning Plates you often change routines unconsciously...Lol.

 

[Scormus]

Hmm

Sounds like a change in behavior to me. In my experience womem want you to get them off but they only make overt representations if their Il is low.

Well its good to be on the alert at all times.

IL seems sky high otherwise though and it did come up in the natural course of conversation.