"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bedding chicks - movie ****.

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Been a few years since I posted here. I'm meeting girls and getting them to my apartment after 1,2,3 dates. I get them there on the premise of watching a movie. And lo and behold, We actually end up watching the movie.

Now, I realise my problem is im not getting them foaming at the lips early enough. What's the quickest or most successful way to escalate? Consider, we have already had sexual conversations and progressive kino. But it's pissing me off a bit now, cos its been 3 chicks in a row I've blown it with I've never had this problem before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well i assume that if i invite a girl round to watch a film she knows the deal.

I find the quickest way to escalate is to hold her hand, then look into her eyes and stroke her hair behind her hair and kiss her. But tbh you both want the same thing, she wont go for it though because shes female and they're weird like that.
 

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Yeah it's toss. I've just had a lass round and she scarpered after the movie. Thing is, once you've had them round for a movie and nothing happening, how do u get them round again?
 

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Call it out. Tell her what you want, there's no point in holding back.
 

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I bet they are probably wondering what's wrong with you... just start kissing, touching, the rest will come by its own.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Make sure the movie you're watching isn't a great movie, or let it be filled with sexual intent.
 

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Ugh it's everything I already know haha, which means I can't want the snatch enough. I want to round two the girl from last night, any ideas on getting her round again? I reckon the movie card can't be played again.

Actually, eff it, I'll probably tell her to come round again to watch a movie but this time we'll watch less movie
 

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Dude, if they're in your HOUSE, watching a MOVIE with you, that's a GREEN LIGHT to have sex with her.

You insult a woman that is interested in you when you DON'T make a move when she decides to watch a movie with you.

Hell, "watching a movie" is code for "we're having sex tonight".

Try not to watch something too funny, I'll personally start cracking up at the wrong moment if I hear something funny while the movie is still playing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I got it, I know what it was that I didn't do. I got too into the movie and didn't visualise myself f*cking her. I didn't spend time mentally undressing her, then slipping my hand between her thighs and spreading her legs as I unbuttoned my jeans for her to get a hold of my c*ck. Then slowly pumping her mouth... and you get the picture. I know what I need to do next time then.

Given it was just the second time in as many weeks that we've hung out.

I have to think of another reason for her to come to come over. Any idea?
 

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Hollow.man said:
I got it, I know what it was that I didn't do. I got too into the movie and didn't visualise myself f*cking her. I didn't spend time mentally undressing her, then slipping my hand between her thighs and spreading her legs as I unbuttoned my jeans for her to get a hold of my c*ck. Then slowly pumping her mouth... and you get the picture. I know what I need to do next time then.

Given it was just the second time in as many weeks that we've hung out.

I have to think of another reason for her to come to come over. Any idea?

someones been watching a lot of porno
 

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Oh man, the movie thing is a old page out of my play book! I got laid about 4-5 times in the pasy doing that, and Thats way before this whole pick up thing. I think it's a good one
 
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