Becoming Ultimately Dominant - My Theoritical & Practical Research (In Progress)

[CharmingCaveman]

Hey guys ,

I've been out of the game for a long while but I found out I was lacking in certain aspects of being completely dominant within relationships even though I was real good at initial pickup , I was basically ALL sexual mode one/davidx/Gm style, I didn't like wasting time , But now I'm back to figure this out for myself via my own experiences and all the books I could find (I'm a syntopic photoreader) on dominance , Thinking about at least 20-50 books.

I wanted to share my insights with you and at the same time get your feedback also on this subject in regards to practicality coz I'm not an authority on the subject YET .

I'm going to post a no. of books that I'm gonna go through and its mindset and tactics and what I used and what worked for me , And this thread will be more of a journal rather than an article towards progressing to being ultimately dominant .

If you have any advice , suggestions on what books I should start with , or certain topics around here ...etc , Please share =) .

CC

 

[CharmingCaveman]

First I'd like to talk about my style of game to do some grounding , I'm strictly upfront & straightforward with what I want , Thats my whole game, And I also can be awfully honest sometimes .

I instantly qualify women in the beginning to make sure they have 3 main initial qualities which I use later on as leverage as well and to make sure they're not creepy/stalkers, It's like giving them enough rope to hang themselves if they **** up , Primarily it's honesty , open-mindedness & a sense of adventure .

If they yes to all these questions initially ,I tell them why I asked them and how I make sure of the presence of these initial qualities in the women I talk to .

If no to any of them , I eject , THANKS but no thanks , But it of course depends on what I'm looking for at the moment .

Then I tell them what I'm exactly looking for and tell them whats going to happen expecting that that they're going to agree anyway , I dun ask them , I tell them .

They could say agree or disagree or give me some **** , And I persist long enough to remind them of how they're going to pass on a great chance to be with someone as masterful as me , If they're still talking to me , It's done .

This basically saves me a lot of time and needs no game and is very effective offline & online .

In these initial stages I have complete dominance , But somehow INSIDE the relationships I WANT to have the dominance of someone like the guy in "Taming the Shrew" or "Swept Away" (without the hitting) , Thats like my goal , But I can't still reach that level of dominance completely yet .

here's one recent "Online" example to be very specific :

2:01:32 pm)CC:Hey Arianna , My name is CC

(2:01:47 pm)HB:*Ariana

(2:01:53 pm)HB:Lol, Hey CC

(2:02:17 pm)CC:=D , well I

(2:02:34 pm)CC:was going through your profile coz I found you very attractive and

(2:03:02 pm)CC:I'd like to be very straightforward and honest with you regarding my intentions from the beginning

(2:03:13 pm)CC:can you handle that ?

(2:04:18 pm)HB:*shrug* Try me.

(2:05:15 pm)CC:Well , I'm looking for someone who is not only attractive but also very honest , imaginative(smart) , & have a sense of adventure

(2:05:40 pm)CC:to have casual no strings attached relationship with

(2:05:57 pm)CC:I'll have to get to know you a lil though before getting in your pants

(2:06:02 pm)HB:Well, those are very healthy ideals to have, in my opinion.

(2:06:20 pm)HB:Especially when starting off with someone.

(2:07:03 pm)CC:Well , I'm talking to you coz you seemed to give off that impression when i read your profile

(2:07:12 pm)CC:and just looking at you made me have fantasies

(2:07:23 pm)CC:really wild ones actually

(2:07:31 pm)HB:My goodness! lol

(2:08:19 pm)CC:yeah , Thats totally true , And I would love to exchange mind-blowing orgasms and some interesting convo as well afterwards

(2:08:21 pm)HB:Well, I'm flattered you would fancy me to have your ideals. However, I may have to mention in my profile that I do plan to be moving to New York in a matter of weeks.

(2:09:13 pm)CC: p.s You know I think I like the way you talk =D , I wonder how it'd sound

(2:09:36 pm)CC:but anyways , Lets talk on IM first and we'll see where it goes from there

(2:10:12 pm)CC:I'll get to know you a lil , we'll play a little game called Cube

(2:10:33 pm)CC:I'll tell you things about you even your best friends wouldn't know in a 100 year

(2:10:50 pm)HB:Hmm.... sounds like an interesting game.

(2:10:58 pm)CC:and then maybe we'll exchange an orgasm or several online

(2:11:45 pm)CC:I love to be very sensual though , So tell me if that doesn't turn you on , Coz it's essential for me

(2:13:19 pm)CC: Does my honesty offend you hun ?

(2:14:27 pm)HB:Ah, not at all. Although your messages are quite forward, I understand where you are coming from in terms of sensuality. It is a vital part of life for those who are very passionate.

(2:14:48 pm)HB:You'll have to pardon me, though, as I've got other things going on presently before you came along.

(2:15:27 pm)CC: =D , I get the feeling that you're really so sweet & delicious

(2:15:41 pm)CC:I dunno why I feel a LOT like tasting you

(2:15:52 pm)CC:but I'll tell you sth

(2:16:22 pm)CC:It's completely up to you to decide if you want to do this and it's cool in both decisions , But

(2:16:36 pm)CC:even though I hate to sound like i'm bragging

(2:16:52 pm)CC:I'm a master at what I do , but dun take my word for it

(2:17:18 pm)CC:So I just wouldn't pass on a chance like that , But it's up to you still

(2:19:43 pm)HB:Indeed, I can tell you're feeling rather hot right now.. hehe, but I can't tell you my attention is not divided at the moment.

(2:20:18 pm)CC: Same here =D

(2:20:46 pm)HB:

(2:20:47 pm)CC:If you aren't a lil wet yourself

(2:21:37 pm)CC:So , You down ?

(2:22:49 pm)HB:I've already told you, I'm busy. lol

(2:23:04 pm)HB:I've got paperwork to do in order to arrange my settlement into NY

(2:24:30 pm)CC:lol , I love it when a woman acts like she's not into to it and like to be treated like a lady ...etc and all that hyporcrite BS when

(2:24:50 pm)CC:she's in reality a kinky freak behind the sheets

(2:24:57 pm)HB:Hmm....

(2:25:09 pm)HB:Actually, every human being on this planet has a wild side to them...

(2:25:13 pm)CC:I get the feeling you're very wild

(2:25:52 pm)HB:But some people, especially ladies, prefer to reserve that to those who can provoke it in them. Usually those who are their types.

(2:26:38 pm)CC:Their types

(2:26:42 pm)CC:you mean like "Man"

(2:26:56 pm)HB:Mhm. Depending on your definition of a man.

(2:27:33 pm)CC:yeah , a real man

(2:27:41 pm)HB:To some women, a gentleman is a huge turn on, bonding is a huge turn on, etc. Some women are "lesbians" so, no man. lol same goes for men. It's all about the individual.

(2:28:25 pm)CC:well I'm a gentleman

(2:28:28 pm)HB:To me, intellect is a huge turn on. And without it, no man can pass. Lol

(2:28:31 pm)CC:=D

(2:28:36 pm)HB:xD

(2:29:21 pm)CC:Right , like you dun get hot like the rest of women are like most of the day

(2:29:33 pm)HB:Who says human beings don't get hot?

(2:29:54 pm)CC:media says that men are the horny species lol

(2:29:55 pm)HB:But what you are talking about is carnal desire. Everyone's carnal desire is different.

(2:30:01 pm)HB:LOL !

(2:30:20 pm)CC:women if they look horny they're considered sluts which is of course PURE BS

(2:30:36 pm)CC:while men are called studs

(2:30:50 pm)HB:You are very wise about that.

(2:31:17 pm)CC:Well , It's the charade women have to live through

(2:31:20 pm)HB:I see where you are going with this now, and I have to give you kudos for that!

(2:31:43 pm)HB:But I have to say, it is quite genuine for me, as the sentimental type, to be more reserved with myself.

(2:32:12 pm)CC:lol

(2:32:20 pm)HB:But that is not to say, I don't believe a woman would be very lucky to engage in your activities. x)

(2:32:45 pm)CC:I dunno why I got the feeling when yu said reserved

(2:33:06 pm)CC:and btw I'm very sensitive to feelings , some call it psyhic and stuff

(2:33:36 pm)CC:I felt like you have like a LOT of energy inside that need to come out

(2:33:51 pm)HB:Haha, indeed.

(2:34:01 pm)CC:more like , You're keeping a lot of emotions that need to be expressed

(2:34:14 pm)CC:I believe in very passionate ways but in away you felt like

(2:34:38 pm)CC:they weren't always understood and appreciated hence it was more like better to just keep them in

(2:35:45 pm)CC:and you're also so very sensitive & tender on the inside

(2:36:15 pm)HB:Very true. Although I use art, paintings and writings to express myself, so they're not frustrated or suppressed.

(2:36:58 pm)CC:You're trying to express them , But there's a LOT more that I can feel

(2:37:10 pm)CC:it's so explosive & euphoric in a way

(2:37:29 pm)CC:I really feel like holding you now to be honest

(2:38:07 pm)CC:in a way I COULD feel your heart

(2:38:45 pm)HB:Lol, that's very sweet.

(2:40:18 pm)CC:Actually I'd rather like to make love to you sensually building up to very wild

(2:40:31 pm)CC:rather than plain ol ****ing

(2:41:09 pm)CC:Lets spend some time together and see where it goes

(2:42:32 pm)HB:Well, CC, I'd have to let you know when I am free. Like I said, I've been pretty busy arranging paperwork for my plans. After that, I might be moving shortly afterwards.

(2:44:26 pm)CC:Sure , But I bet you can spare some time online so I could get to know what you're like

(2:44:29 pm)CC:remember the game

(2:44:41 pm)CC:And if you weren't interested you would have left from a long time

(2:44:52 pm)CC:so write ur IM and I'll add you

(2:46:50 pm)CC:But I won't ask you once more =)

(2:48:01 pm)HBardon the delay.

(2:48:12 pm)HB:My IM is *******

(2:51:50 pm)CC:I'll add you

(2:54:11 pm)HB:Cool! I'll catch you when I'm free then.

(2:54:17 pm)HB:I have to run

(2:54:41 pm)CC:sure , have fun hun *kisses*

(2:54:51 pm)CC:mine is ****

(2:54:54 pm)CC:see ya

I tend to get their IM , Qualify them more(Cube) ,Exchange a couple of orgasms and meet up .

It's pretty simple but it works for me in all situations .

Next I'm gonna try & define what dominance means to me now , And what questions I have and what are my answers based on my experience and then we'll see what changes or what I learn after more research and practice .

 

[CharmingCaveman]

Being dominant to me basically is being in complete control of the relationship in every aspect and having the women be completely obedient(compliant) with her own will to the point that she enjoys it and gets turned on it by it .

It has a lot to do a lot with authentic leadership

One of the best examples in my opinion was that of "Taming the Shrew" , This man was really good at breaking down the *****iness of that woman incredibly , That in the end she was BEYOND submissive ,The first scene when he persuades her to marry him the hard way was REALLY good at showing persistence & dominance , And very charming :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ASKZLGwAdcw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tmOQh5RNveQ&feature=related

Also "Swept Away"(Original version) which was written by a woman , Also had a way of showing primal dominance in a way that was incredible , Even though there was a lot of hitting , The concepts themselves were very solid , Seemed very S&M as well .

To define dominance in my experience , One has to go about it within & without , As in internal mindset/beliefs & external acts/tactics , Which complete each other .

Mindset :

Women are always trying to know what they want or want to take control of their lives , Unlike Men , Who their sole motive is direction/goal-oriented , Hence most of their actions are completely based around what they want .

This is why primarily as a man , You have to know what you exactly want and why you want it and it has to be the most important thing to you rather than anything else .

Knowing what you want and how to get it and why you want to have it , Gives you a solid vision and shows you've got drive , You become like the fire and she becomes the leech .

Understanding the truth about your "Self" and how identity is pretty much societal BS is also another way to be very flexible and in control of yourself , Hence more in control of most of interactions .

Intention is a very important aspect as well , I've studied and practiced a form of energetic art/science called Matrix Energetics in which intention & letting go alone could change the arrangement of electrons within an atom and affecting the possibilities taking place in time/space continuum .

Seeing the effect of simple intention & letting go and how it could do incredible effects through zero actions is honestly life changing , People life long diseases disappear in seconds , And weird **** happens .

Now this is why imagining a situation , Intending it to happen and then letting it go (concentrating on the area of the heart does it) leads to far better results with whatever you're doing .

And in the case of dominance it's essential that you'd give the reaction of expecting it to happen and believing it will happen , And turning every negative reaction into what fuels the act itself , Thus intention makes it all easier .

To intend sth to happen , You imagine it and "Order" it to happen in your mind .

Summing it all up , Knowing who you are , What you want , Why & how you want this in every aspect you could , And then intending what you want to happen in any interaction and expecting it to happen yet letting go would be the mindset to make it work .

 

[CharmingCaveman]

External Actions/Tactics/Techniques :


Okay I'm basically thinking out loud here .

Being completely mode one/radically honest myself , Two grand influences in style come to mind in regards to dominance , Where Aaron Sleazy in my opinion is the epitome of Non-verbally dominant mode one , And Davidx/Alan Roger M1/GM/Brad Blanton as the epitome of verbally dominant mode one .

A healthy balanced & calibrated(Calibrated as in the social setting ,intention,degree of vulgarity, no of a women in a set & managing their ASD) dose of Non-verbal/Verbal M1 creates explosive sexual tension instantaneously and could be basically called the art of the dominating caveman .

As dominance has a lot to do with verbal/non-verbal aggression & the "Solid" backbone to back it up in a very ****y , seductive & collected attitude , And its core is the mindset of knowing what you want and what appeals to you and doing whatever you want to do whenever you feel like doing it without giving a damn about what the f uck she thinks (2 Rules of Davidx) , Even if she gets pissed at you , You're indifferent, persistent and confident , And not in one way apologetic about what you want even if it's the most vile of fantasies , Knowing a TON of information about women sexuality, fantasies & body language (esp. eye pupils) and of course more experience helps a lot in achieving that demeanor .

BUT even though you're not giving her thoughts any type of space in your own head , you DO have to handle/attentively ignore her BS reactions, You have to reframe her ASD , social conditioning and you'd have to satisfy the emotional need of protecting her reputation/yours , And you have to be in total control of the frame or at least pass most of her tests coz you could totally fail many several and she'd be still hooked if you opened with verbal M1 and even more hooked if you've done both at the same time .

In my experience initial & sexual qualification tends to increase compliance, decrease ASD and creates a WAY HIGHER value(as in satisfying more of her emotional needs) coz it shows you're not doing it with every single woman that complies and you're not just a slut(a possible pool of diseases) , Not including the fact you wanna make sure she's not a creep/stalker , And you're not looking for marital BS if she's not single , This shows you also dun tolerate BS , And you protect your own reputations , Thus you'll protects hers .

As a result they'll be quite open & more compliant and they'll agree with you about how they've also had some weird **** happen with creeps , people with diseases..etc , And you'll be in WAY easier .

Now Lets be more specific when it comes to tactics .

There are basically 2 phases when it comes to dominance , The hunt itself and the relationship later on .

The easier part is the hunt , The tougher one is the relationship coz it takes a longer time and most of the time you could get lazy with it .

In my experience every single part of the hunt has to do with dominating/controlling the frame , You have to be responsible for every part of the interaction , You have to take responsibility for EVERY decision to be made from the approach to the orgasm , Women DESPISE taking responsibility for ANYTHING at all , No wonder this is why they're always having lots of trouble taking decisions in their life , Hence you NEVER give her the chance/ask her for what to do in a situation , You always tell her what to do and she has the choice to comply or leave , While resistance is to be handled accordingly or ignored .

This is why it's EXTREMELY important that you know what you want & why , So that you could "Lead"/Dominate the whole interaction smoothly .

When it comes to specificity , In my experience with M1 I really do what I feel like doing/saying at the time , And sometimes saying verbally what I'm just thinking alone could be over-kill .

The question that comes to my mind here though along with some more questions :

What exactly would be the types of behavior/actions that could be giving away power/control/dominance and thus failing a woman's constant subconscious/conscious testing before & during the relationship ?

And how to hold that frame long enough throughout the beginning until years in a relationship in a way that would turn/break down a b i tchy feminist woman into a willingly submissive (Or Sub in S&M) gradually to a superb extent in a way that it ultimately turns her on ?

How to have the complete dominance over women like that of a Pimp but exceeding it even more to that of a Cult leader ?

P.S I have to mention though that my goal is manipulation-free domination , Not interested in Hypnotic Brainwashing/Mind control .

I'll try to answer these questions on my own to my best effort from what I've experienced before I start looking for & into all the books about Dominance , I'd like to end this with a quote by a woman thats sums it up in many ways :

"I can’t speak for all women, but for me, the secret is this: I want to be
made to feel wanted, needed and protected. Once that’s taken care of, I
want my protector to treat me like a total w h ore. " Dollie Ilama

 

[Deicide]

here's one recent "Online" example to be very specific :

2:01:32 pm)CC:Hey Arianna , My name is CC

(2:01:47 pm)HB:*Ariana

(2:01:53 pm)HB:Lol, Hey CC

(2:02:17 pm)CC:=D , well I

(2:02:34 pm)CC:was going through your profile coz I found you very attractive and

(2:03:02 pm)CC:I'd like to be very straightforward and honest with you regarding my intentions from the beginning

(2:03:13 pm)CC:can you handle that ?

(2:04:18 pm)HB:*shrug* Try me.

(2:05:15 pm)CC:Well , I'm looking for someone who is not only attractive but also very honest , imaginative(smart) , & have a sense of adventure

(2:05:40 pm)CC:to have casual no strings attached relationship with

(2:05:57 pm)CC:I'll have to get to know you a lil though before getting in your pants

(2:06:02 pm)HB:Well, those are very healthy ideals to have, in my opinion.

(2:06:20 pm)HB:Especially when starting off with someone.

(2:07:03 pm)CC:Well , I'm talking to you coz you seemed to give off that impression when i read your profile

(2:07:12 pm)CC:and just looking at you made me have fantasies

(2:07:23 pm)CC:really wild ones actually

(2:07:31 pm)HB:My goodness! lol

(2:08:19 pm)CC:yeah , Thats totally true , And I would love to exchange mind-blowing orgasms and some interesting convo as well afterwards

(2:08:21 pm)HB:Well, I'm flattered you would fancy me to have your ideals. However, I may have to mention in my profile that I do plan to be moving to New York in a matter of weeks.

(2:09:13 pm)CC: p.s You know I think I like the way you talk =D , I wonder how it'd sound

(2:09:36 pm)CC:but anyways , Lets talk on IM first and we'll see where it goes from there

(2:10:12 pm)CC:I'll get to know you a lil , we'll play a little game called Cube

(2:10:33 pm)CC:I'll tell you things about you even your best friends wouldn't know in a 100 year

(2:10:50 pm)HB:Hmm.... sounds like an interesting game.

(2:10:58 pm)CC:and then maybe we'll exchange an orgasm or several online

(2:11:45 pm)CC:I love to be very sensual though , So tell me if that doesn't turn you on , Coz it's essential for me

(2:13:19 pm)CC: Does my honesty offend you hun ?

(2:14:27 pm)HB:Ah, not at all. Although your messages are quite forward, I understand where you are coming from in terms of sensuality. It is a vital part of life for those who are very passionate.

(2:14:48 pm)HB:You'll have to pardon me, though, as I've got other things going on presently before you came along.

(2:15:27 pm)CC: =D , I get the feeling that you're really so sweet & delicious

(2:15:41 pm)CC:I dunno why I feel a LOT like tasting you

(2:15:52 pm)CC:but I'll tell you sth

(2:16:22 pm)CC:It's completely up to you to decide if you want to do this and it's cool in both decisions , But

(2:16:36 pm)CC:even though I hate to sound like i'm bragging

(2:16:52 pm)CC:I'm a master at what I do , but dun take my word for it

(2:17:18 pm)CC:So I just wouldn't pass on a chance like that , But it's up to you still

(2:19:43 pm)HB:Indeed, I can tell you're feeling rather hot right now.. hehe, but I can't tell you my attention is not divided at the moment.

(2:20:18 pm)CC: Same here =D

(2:20:46 pm)HB:

(2:20:47 pm)CC:If you aren't a lil wet yourself

(2:21:37 pm)CC:So , You down ?

(2:22:49 pm)HB:I've already told you, I'm busy. lol

(2:23:04 pm)HB:I've got paperwork to do in order to arrange my settlement into NY

(2:24:30 pm)CC:lol , I love it when a woman acts like she's not into to it and like to be treated like a lady ...etc and all that hyporcrite BS when

(2:24:50 pm)CC:she's in reality a kinky freak behind the sheets

(2:24:57 pm)HB:Hmm....

(2:25:09 pm)HB:Actually, every human being on this planet has a wild side to them...

(2:25:13 pm)CC:I get the feeling you're very wild

(2:25:52 pm)HB:But some people, especially ladies, prefer to reserve that to those who can provoke it in them. Usually those who are their types.

(2:26:38 pm)CC:Their types

(2:26:42 pm)CC:you mean like "Man"

(2:26:56 pm)HB:Mhm. Depending on your definition of a man.

(2:27:33 pm)CC:yeah , a real man

(2:27:41 pm)HB:To some women, a gentleman is a huge turn on, bonding is a huge turn on, etc. Some women are "lesbians" so, no man. lol same goes for men. It's all about the individual.

(2:28:25 pm)CC:well I'm a gentleman

(2:28:28 pm)HB:To me, intellect is a huge turn on. And without it, no man can pass. Lol

(2:28:31 pm)CC:=D

(2:28:36 pm)HB:xD

(2:29:21 pm)CC:Right , like you dun get hot like the rest of women are like most of the day

(2:29:33 pm)HB:Who says human beings don't get hot?

(2:29:54 pm)CC:media says that men are the horny species lol

(2:29:55 pm)HB:But what you are talking about is carnal desire. Everyone's carnal desire is different.

(2:30:01 pm)HB:LOL !

(2:30:20 pm)CC:women if they look horny they're considered sluts which is of course PURE BS

(2:30:36 pm)CC:while men are called studs

(2:30:50 pm)HB:You are very wise about that.

(2:31:17 pm)CC:Well , It's the charade women have to live through

(2:31:20 pm)HB:I see where you are going with this now, and I have to give you kudos for that!

(2:31:43 pm)HB:But I have to say, it is quite genuine for me, as the sentimental type, to be more reserved with myself.

(2:32:12 pm)CC:lol

(2:32:20 pm)HB:But that is not to say, I don't believe a woman would be very lucky to engage in your activities. x)

(2:32:45 pm)CC:I dunno why I got the feeling when yu said reserved

(2:33:06 pm)CC:and btw I'm very sensitive to feelings , some call it psyhic and stuff

(2:33:36 pm)CC:I felt like you have like a LOT of energy inside that need to come out

(2:33:51 pm)HB:Haha, indeed.

(2:34:01 pm)CC:more like , You're keeping a lot of emotions that need to be expressed

(2:34:14 pm)CC:I believe in very passionate ways but in away you felt like

(2:34:38 pm)CC:they weren't always understood and appreciated hence it was more like better to just keep them in

(2:35:45 pm)CC:and you're also so very sensitive & tender on the inside

(2:36:15 pm)HB:Very true. Although I use art, paintings and writings to express myself, so they're not frustrated or suppressed.

(2:36:58 pm)CC:You're trying to express them , But there's a LOT more that I can feel

(2:37:10 pm)CC:it's so explosive & euphoric in a way

(2:37:29 pm)CC:I really feel like holding you now to be honest

(2:38:07 pm)CC:in a way I COULD feel your heart

(2:38:45 pm)HB:Lol, that's very sweet.

(2:40:18 pm)CC:Actually I'd rather like to make love to you sensually building up to very wild

(2:40:31 pm)CC:rather than plain ol ****ing

(2:41:09 pm)CC:Lets spend some time together and see where it goes

(2:42:32 pm)HB:Well, CC, I'd have to let you know when I am free. Like I said, I've been pretty busy arranging paperwork for my plans. After that, I might be moving shortly afterwards.

(2:44:26 pm)CC:Sure , But I bet you can spare some time online so I could get to know what you're like

(2:44:29 pm)CC:remember the game

(2:44:41 pm)CC:And if you weren't interested you would have left from a long time

(2:44:52 pm)CC:so write ur IM and I'll add you

(2:46:50 pm)CC:But I won't ask you once more =)

(2:48:01 pm)HBardon the delay.

(2:48:12 pm)HB:My IM is *******

(2:51:50 pm)CC:I'll add you

(2:54:11 pm)HB:Cool! I'll catch you when I'm free then.

(2:54:17 pm)HB:I have to run

(2:54:41 pm)CC:sure , have fun hun *kisses*

(2:54:51 pm)CC:mine is ****

(2:54:54 pm)CC:see ya



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Wow! I have never read or heard anyone say things like that to a woman. Congratulations on having such a unique yet effective style of game. I've been wanting to become a better conversationalist on and off-line with women. I have a lot of girls that leave in the middle of a conversation on me, or that don't reply fast at all. I've never been direct about what I wanted though, and I tried to ease my way through general conversation, so that may be the cause.

 

[quatroburn]

First I'd like to talk about my style of game to do some grounding , I'm strictly upfront & straightforward with what I want , Thats my whole game, And I also can be awfully honest sometime.

I instantly qualify women in the beginning to make sure they have 3 main initial qualities which I use later on as leverage as well and to make sure they're not creepy/stalkers, It's like giving them enough rope to hang themselves if they **** up , Primarily it's honesty , open-mindedness & a sense of adventure .

About long while ago I have tried a lot of stuff, and found out that the game I was trying to play with women didn't work for me. I ended up being frustrated because people told me all the time I was good looking. I didn't believe it myself though as I got no results I became somewhat insecure and didn't really act any more. Usually the girls I got were after me and they are often not that attractive to look at.

I read a lot of self-help articles and books on e.g. body language, NLP and psychology and eventually found out that aswell that honesty for me also works. And if they are good looking I challenge them and say that looks mean nothing to me. And I explain why it isn't by showing females who look hot, saying that eventually the looks disappear and they have nothing left any more. Then they will try to show you that they are not like that most of the time.

Then I tell them what I'm exactly looking for and tell them whats going to happen expecting that that they're going to agree anyway , I dun ask them , I tell them .

Makes me wonder.. If you are looking for sex only then how do you honestly say this? Saying it directly isn't the key I think.

Then I tell them what I'm exactly looking for and tell them whats going to happen expecting that that they're going to agree anyway , I dun ask them , I tell them .

They could say agree or disagree or give me some **** , And I persist long enough to remind them of how they're going to pass on a great chance to be with someone as masterful as me , If they're still talking to me , It's done .

This I do too, but I don't say how masterful I am because it can be seen as arrogance and that is a turnoff. I just show them the best man I can be and let them choose whether to be with me or not. Persistence is the key, but timing as well. Don't brag to her you should always listen more than talk when dealing with a female in my opinion. You got 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason.

This basically saves me a lot of time and needs no game and is very effective offline & online .

In these initial stages I have complete dominance , But somehow INSIDE the relationships I WANT to have the dominance of someone like the guy in "Taming the Shrew" or "Swept Away" (without the hitting) , Thats like my goal , But I can't still reach that level of dominance completely yet .

Dominance you can show by your body language. Put your shoulders back, never look to the ground and move deliberately slower than usually. Keep your arms down in neutral position. Use your hands only to magnify your speech. Body language is 93% of communication.

You should read some stuff on leadership also if you want to become the dominant alpha male.