Becoming too desensitized from the red pill

[Trunks]

Hey fellows,

Has anyone experienced this? While I can safely say I have rid myself of outcome dependence, I feel as if knowing the truth of how women view men has made me go too far in the other direction and have no real sense of intimacy. By this I mean, until/unless I bed a girl quickly, I tend to get bored pretty fast. As if, I subconsciously don't get anything out of romance or getting to know them and am just going through the motions. Truth be told, I kinda feel like if it wasn't for sex, dating would not be worth the effort ... and even when you get it, looking back most of the times it isn't. It's still better than playing with yourself.

 

[Huffman]

I feel like that every once in a while.

Try day game. Or meeting girls through friends. It sounds like you're quite successful with pickup&bang, pump&dump. You should really try meeting girls that are genuinely interesting, in a way that you can connect with them (not only sexually). Through common interests, common activities, friends etc.

I realized I was banging only some medium quality broads that actually werent 100% interesting to me, simply because I could. Well, it's a great ride, but not always fulfilling. So, aim even higher. If not in the looks department, then personality.

People are going to bash this, but try - for a change - to find and befriend girls you genuinely like. Every now and then that's ok... now this is not for AFCs, this is not the friend zone. Consider it at least, so you don't become a heartless beast.

 

[Starwolf]

Same Here.

I thought I was just being lazy for not wanting to do the whole going on a date thing.

feels like a drag now.

is it repill? lazyness?

is RED PILL LIKE PORN..? Too much of it and you can't get it up anymore

 

[MOTU]

My view is, that in order to avoid becoming jaded or cynical, you have to recognize and accept your own nature as well. Men have biological imperatives that we execute with the same ruthlessness that women do.

In other words, taking the red pill should be about understanding how men, women and society as a whole works, and what that means in terms of your own behavior. If red pill to you is just coming to the belief that all women and b!tches and wh0res, you are missing the bigger picture.

I suggest Robert Wrights "The Moral Animal" to help with this process.

 

[Trunks]

If red pill to you is just coming to the belief that all women and b!tches and wh0res, you are missing the bigger picture.

Far from it, I love women and have a playful personality, and by that I mean the entire experience from flirting and teasing, etc... but if it doesn't lead to sex fast, it quickly bores me and becomes a drag. Being a bitter misogynist won't get any man very far. I do believe, however, that ultimately women are self-centered, just like me.

I suggest Robert Wrights "The Moral Animal" to help with this process.

Thanks, added to reading list.

I thought I was just being lazy for not wanting to do the whole going on a date thing.

feels like a drag now.

is it repill? lazyness?

Yes, this is exactly how I feel as well.

 

[Steady Eddie]

My view is, that in order to avoid becoming jaded or cynical, you have to recognize and accept your own nature as well. Men have biological imperatives that we execute with the same ruthlessness that women do.

In other words, taking the red pill should be about understanding how men, women and society as a whole works, and what that means in terms of your own behavior. If red pill to you is just coming to the belief that all women and b!tches and wh0res, you are missing the bigger picture.

I suggest Robert Wrights "The Moral Animal" to help with this process.

This a very interesting way of seeing things.

 

[limerickdesign]

i go with the spiritual aspect of things.
If we are seeking just sex, mating, intercourse, women whatever
we are missing the other aspect which is spiritual.

Not Ejaculating and transmuting sexual energy has profound ways of
making you a much healthier happier, and more fulfilled human being.
I got a book that was recommend that talks about transmuting all that pent up energy for bliss consciousness and peace and healing the body

I am definetely not there yet by any means but not ejaculating for 46 days now has definetely helped me immensely in so many areas.