"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Becoming The Forbidden, Ripe Fruit.

GQ Prettyboy

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Everyone shops at the grocery store. So I assume everyone likes fruits. Apples, oranges, watermelons, pineapples, etc. You take them home and you eat one of them . Ew!! this sh(i)t taste bitter. So you wait 3-5 days for the fruits to mature, and you eat a piece of em. Almost taste like heaven once the juices hit your taste buds. You`re thinking to yourself this fuit is so RIPE and so good. Next thing you know, you ate another one. SO WHAT THE HELL THAT GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING!!!

Simple! A lot of people are constantly looking for satisfaction when comes to dating, meeting women , and socializing. In early stages it is always hard because you`re an underdeveloped fruit that hasn`t riped into maturation yet. When you`re being rejected by somemone, that is because they tasted you before you became RIPE. So you taste bitter like a fruit in its early stages. HOW CAN I BECOME THE FORBIDDEN RIPE FRUIT, GQ? By discovering who you are as person. Go out into the world and set goals for yourself. Explore, get involved in different hobbies and find out who you really are. Learn from your mistakes and keep pushing for maturity. Read lots of books. Start a career, or save money and visit different parts the world. BE INDEPENDENT. All of these will help you become the RIPE fruit everyone wants a bite of. Becoming the forbidden, ripe fruit is that being someone that everybody want, but can`t have. You have been there, done that. So don`t worry about not having a relationship right now, because once you mature into that ripe fruit, women will flock to you like fuit flies, (no pun intended)
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have some fruit of the loom that already ripened. Women seem to love these berries of desire.
 

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very nice analogy. its all been said before but i really like the way you put it :D
 
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