"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NewMan

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Maybe this will help some of you guys out - my experience has been very positive.


It's not something new for sure. Many people have mentioned it before on their replies - especially when helping a guy get over that dreaded one-i-tis. That is plain and simple - get involved in your hobbies. Get your mind off of your one-i-tis and onto something else. Not only that, I believe as a MAN it's imperative that we have hobbies that we are involved in - we need that time away from the old ball and chain - hanging with out guy friends and doing what we have a passion for. I'd like to suggest we take this one step further.


My life as a whole has picked up immeasurably recently - and it all due to a new hobby I picked up.

I purchased a Dirt bike not long ago - and have been riding it every weekend since. Having something new to concentrate on, and look forward to has brought the level of my life to a new high - a feeling of excitement that I once had as a younger man.

I'd suggest to anyone that they take up riding dirt bikes - here's how it's helped me...

1) It's definitely a Male sport. You need balls. It's associated with MEN - there's nothing like having chicks see you on a big bad ass dirt bike - covered in mud, tearing up the dirt. It'll make their panties wet.

2) One word Testosterone. That's right - your dealing with engines, dirt, jumps, speed, danger, helmets - there's nothing like getting that Testosterone flowing through your body. After a hard days riding through the trails - your whole body aching from riding hard - you've been close to falling a couple of times, had your stomach in your mouth... you feel awesome, strong, you feel like your a man.

3) What a workout. Almost every muscle in your body aching - from your forearm, legs, stomach, shoulders - controlling a 230lb bike whilst screaming across the desert is no easy task.

4) Fun. After blowing through the trails - does it even matter that Betty Fvcking b#tch has not returned your calls? or that Suzie the Slut is fvcking all the a##holes but will not give you the time of day? or that your Ex GF is a b#tch? Hell no. You've got your balls back - your a man. Act like a man and you'll be a man.

5) Risk. It's risky. Having that rush of nearly falling of your bike - that feeling just can not be replaced. The adrenaline that runs through your body. After that - asking a chick out is nothing in comparison.


Riding Dirt bikes has been my personal way of revving up my manhood. I've also started back training Kung Fu regularly again. Both of these have helped me focus - and get back on track. You may find other hobbies/sports will help you - perhaps Sky diving, ATV riding, Jet Skiing, Boxing etc. etc. etc.

The point is, find that which invigorates you - that get's your Testosterone flowing - harness it and use it, and become the man you are.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeh and girls also like men who have hobbies, more in there life then just triyng to get girls, i do long distance crosscountry cycling, anything up to about 90km (off road)
 
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