"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey guys i need help big time i found my problem i can become friends easilly with guys but not with girls. They think i'm loud and weird just cause i swear how the hell do u treat women somethings u push they love somethings u are gently with they hate women are another species cause they make no sense and i need help. I'm gonna get down to the point and say HOW DO I BECOME FRIENDS WITH GIRLS AND KEEP THAT FRIENDSHIP MOVING UP? THANX
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you want to be friends with girls? You should want to hook up with them.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why do you want to be friends with girls?
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
 

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Originally posted by gravstar
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
I know this, but this kid had thementality that he wants girls to be his friends.
 

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become friends with girls as you would with anyone else, respect, positive, and never bring your problems to them, always talk about your positive experiences.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 
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