"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey guys i need help big time i found my problem i can become friends easilly with guys but not with girls. They think i'm loud and weird just cause i swear how the hell do u treat women somethings u push they love somethings u are gently with they hate women are another species cause they make no sense and i need help. I'm gonna get down to the point and say HOW DO I BECOME FRIENDS WITH GIRLS AND KEEP THAT FRIENDSHIP MOVING UP? THANX
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do you want to be friends with girls? You should want to hook up with them.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why do you want to be friends with girls?
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
 

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Originally posted by gravstar
Having girls around you builds solid social proof and it is great for hooking up with their friends that go to other schools.
Being friends with girls is alright if you know what your doing. I mean this by saying don't soak up all their complaining and whining. You want the best side of them to listen to.
I know this, but this kid had thementality that he wants girls to be his friends.
 

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become friends with girls as you would with anyone else, respect, positive, and never bring your problems to them, always talk about your positive experiences.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Wow you really need to learn some typing skills. How old are you, 12?
 
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