"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Becoming more violent as my dry spell progresses

Dhoulmagus

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I dont want to go jail. I've already ****** up 4 guys
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Maximus Rex

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A Message to Our Friends the Moderators of So Suave.net

An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Am I overacting to an attention whoring loser? Probably, but in light of that Eliot Rodgers b.s., when you have dumb stupid muthaf*ckas that go around saying sh*t like this, you have to treat in the same fashion that the words "gun," or "shooting," are treated in a school and the words "bomb," "terrorist," "jihad" or "Allahu Akbar" are treated in an airport or a plane, with the up most regard and seriousness.

Based on Dhoulmagus posting history, (whether true or false,) he's exhibited signs of depression, frustration, and now he's claiming to have reacted violently to others on the street. As a respected and esteemed member of the So Suave community, I'm telling you, Dholmagnus, to stop that sh*t now. If you're being honest, you need to seek some professional help. If you're lying, then you need offer everybody on this board, from Allen, the moderators, and all of it's members a sincere and humble apology.

To Allen, Atom Smasher, Bradd, Desdinova, Nismo, Purefilth, Rollo, SoSuave, Rollo, and Vice, I'm not telling you guys how to moderate the board, but when you have Dhoulmagnus talking about how he's perpetuating acts of violence on the public because he's not successful with women, that's not to be taken lightly, (especially in light of Eliot Rodgers ending the lives of seven innocent people because of his inability to pull women.)

So Suave means a lot of different things to members of the board, whether it's to get information on how to become more attractive to women or life improvement and personal growth, or just entertainment, So Suave's existence shouldn't be called into question because Dhoulmagnus is having issues in his personal life or is seeking attention via stupid and demonstrative threads. I would like to think that Allen would personally concerned about a thread of this nature because it threatens his revenue stream.

Whether Allen and the moderators decide to "read," Dhoulmagnus "the Riot Act," and let him off with a stern warning as to never do this again, (or do what I suggest,) and ban him from So Suave and report his I.P. address to the police, I support you in your actions concerning this matter.

However, as to stop this from ever happening again, I STRONGLY suggest that Allen personally issue an edict stating that if any member of this online community makes a thread or post stating that he is, has, or is thinking about committing acts of violence against the public because his lack of success with women, said poster will not only be banned from the board, but he'll be reported to the police. The last thing I want to hear on the news is that a disgruntled member of the online community sosuave.net went bad, killed some people, and as a result the website has been shutdown.

Thanking all concerned in advance, Omnipotens Maximus Rex.

P.S. Dhoulmagnus, it's one thing to constantly whine, cry, blame others and racism for the lack of success with women, but now you've crossed the line. Not only am I going to flag this thread, I'm going to notify all of the moderators of it, and start a petition in garnering support of banning you from the So Suave community.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
The last thing I want to hear on the news is that a disgruntled member of the online community sosuave.net went bad, killed some people, and as a result the website has been shutdown.

Yes I agree. And his actions would indirectly reflect bad on every single one of us. The media would eat it up like a prime rib and lobster buffet.

On the other hand, he must want some help or he wouldn't have posted. Perhaps he should talk to one of us privately who has been through similar? I would offer to do it but I have never been in his exact shoes. We have 107,000+ users on here, surely somebody has.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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