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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Becoming an artist

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Hey everyone, I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I didn't major in art but more than once have I been complimented on my talent in paintings and drawings. They're not the modernistic abstract type but the classic "fine art" realism type.

I about to put some up on eBay and to convince my local gallery but I was wondering if there's a better/faster way to gain recognition. What is the art scene looking for these days anyway?

Of course I'm not expecting to becomee Michael Angelo overnight, but I certainly hope to get some nice bucks out of it. Peace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I know people who have done the same and I think you will be very disappointed with the sales from Ebay. Even the best work barely sells and those that do tend to be related to an in thing like Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Star wars etc.

I think galleries are your best bet because gallery staff obviously have an eye for good art and spread the word. I've also been told that it is eseential that an artist can promote his work and needs to be able to speak the lingo, act and dress the part and have the character. Dumb, but I think there's truth to that.

Apparently it is extremely hard to break out as an artist and the amount of effort put into it rarely has a sufficient pay off.

Good luck! I like the sound of your work and hope you make it!
 
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my career is in art (will be very soon). and the art scene is the same as it ever will be once your good with the foundational things, form, shape, value, color theory, anatomy, compositon you will be alright. everything is done digitally now. you can make a living as a fine artist doing galleries but you MUST HAVE STRONG ACEDEMIC SKILLS. to gain recognition is to be the best, if you have a strong portfolio you will get people to give you backing and you should be able to make good money freelancing. its not that tough to make it successfully as an artist, you've just got to be THE BEST. an online portfolio or website, and biz cards are a must, market yourself.
 
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