"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Becoming an Amazing Lover
- Thread starter Jay Julio
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
user43770
Guest
perseverance
Guest
i have less than 15 posts and most of them are on jayjulio's thread,thats because he is my idol.I have read atleast 100 of puas out there if not more but jays stuff is what i relate with the most,he has got what i want to see in me.
i am such a big fan of this guy that i retrieved articles from his dead websites through webarchives.
i don't like to explain or prove myself to any random poster on a forum but this is needed to make ppl know that jay isn't using cheap tactics like applauding his own words from another account.He just doesn't need that and u will realise this as soon as you read his work.Start with 'Crash course on masculine power'
can u name any one pua who has ever written an article like that one? only a brilliantly talented mind could do this.thanks jay julio for changing my life for better!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.