Becoming an Amazing Lover

[Jay Julio]

I know us guys don't like to admit when we're not good at something, at least publically. But how many guys here (being anonymous and all) would like to learn some real Lover philosophy and application, whereby a woman would be so satisfied, it would drive her crazy and she'd do anything not to lose you because the sex is that good?

I want to start a website in the near future dedicated to such topics and would like to know what kind of interest or demand there would be for it, before putting time and effort into it.

That said, what kind of questions and problems do you have about sex and genuinely pleasing your partner in bed?

My website (or lack of it) will depend on your responses here (and something else, of course -- starts with a 'K').

 

[Purefilth]

Ive had girl chat overheard and passed back to me giving me a rating "like a 5* hotel".


Just a moment to brag

 

[betheman]

we can all brag, Im sre most of us have had the..." no one has made me feel like that/this way before"...current GF after a G spot orgasm loudly exclaimed..."where the f ccuk has that been all my life? ".
some guys think you have to bang away all night like a porn star to be good, that would bore me stupid. a lot of it is finding out what makes her tick without asking questions, experiment, learn a bit of female anatomy, dont dissmiss foreplay, very important and the tease is incredible. you have to make her wet and want you, having said that sometime you just need to rip her knickers off and be totally selfish, mix it up

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Dude, you're asking a bunch of guys who've never picked up a violin if they'd like to learn some advanced techniques for playing at a live concert.

Not a slam on anybody.

Most guys here want to learn how to walk up, talk to, number close, and hopefully f-close a girl they fancy.

A large part of marketing is knowing where your customers are.

You might want to pitch your wares on the Married Man section.

But to answer your question, I've found the best way to please a woman in just the way she likes is to simply try different things with her, and find out what she likes. Half the fun is in the discovery.

But here's a tip that will take you far:

Learn to last longer than she can.

 

[betheman]

Funny how my question wasn't even answered and was completely avoided. Instead, the response is bragging and unsolicited advice. Anyone conceited and vain here?

learn to read much?

 

[goundra]

Being tremedously fit is always a big help, at nearly everything, but few have the self discipline, which is one of the big reasons that the other sex find it to be so attractive.

 

[FairShake]

I'm a pretty horrible looking guy by society's standards (overweight, red hair, wandering eye, adult acne, small penis). Yet I get laid sometimes. And when I do I always have them coming back. Because I work at it. Call it beta, putting in so much work, but life isn't always so black and white. If I get my d!ck wet again and again I'll beta it up a little bit.

1.) Pay attention. Girls really do have "spots." It might be their ears, behind the knees, their neck, one girl I knew really liked her clavicle licked. Pay attention to when their breathing picks up and their body tightens up. Even if they don't tell you (and they might now) this is how you can tell they are into it. While they won't tell you they like it...they will tell you if they don't so don't worry about that.

2.) They all have the one spot. And that's the pvssy. Eat the pvssy. But don't just eat it, play with it. Put your fingers in it. Fvck with your fingers, they seem to love that. Again, here they all have certain techniques they like. Some girls like their entire cl!t sucked. Some only like it lightly nibbled at. I like to roll my tongue up like a hot dog bun and lick it like that. Teasing works really well here. Sometimes I will be finger fvcking them and slowly slide up to play with the cl!t. Experiment.

3.) Dance. If you can dance and move your pelvis expertly it won't matter if you have a small d!ck. Well, not as much. Nonetheless girls like guys with good rhythm in the sack. If you can really move on the dance floor it's a simple step to being able to move in the bedroom.

 

[Huffman]

Jay Julio, I'm definitely interested.

I mean I can get the girls off, but I want more than that, make them go totally crazy.

 

[Purefilth]

not quite "pump" Its a different depth for a few (shallow) then a few deep, change angle, move them about, change position change tempo. If you mix it up there, they dont know what to expect. But not a pattern - like 4 deep, 9 shallow - you have to keep them guessing, wondering if you'll hit that spot again - hopefully you will, but just remember what you did when her toes curled up, and switch back to that if you think you're struggling..
Once you're coming up to the finishing line though, its about YOU, so pump like fvvvvvck!!!

 

[Fatal Jay]

jay julio, I have read some of your articles on ezarticle

you had some really great articles, I would like to see more stuff by you

amd of course something about pleasing the woman

 

[goundra]

Read Ferriss's book, about how to massage her ****, at 1 oclock, with only enough pressure to move 2 pcs of paper sliding past each other, Also check out the buckwheat pillows and the modified positions, which put more friction on her ****.

 

[Puru13]

7 to go

can never afford missing anything this guy teaches.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

Read sexgod method if your interested in improving your sexual performance. Very informative

 

[goundra]

get her a vibrator, put coke and amyl nitrate up her nose, and she'll follow you around like a puppy dog. I aint kidding.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I guess the interest level isn't that high.

Jay what's up with a free PDF of that book you dropped

You had some gems in that one

 

[Jiggs223]

Jay Julio's question

I read some of your pdf's from before...I would be interested!!!

 

[Purefilth]

@ Jay Julio. You'll probably get a better response level in the High school / DJ discussion forums.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I think that the majority of guys here (and there are thousands of regular lurkers... I've seen the numbers) can barely even conceive of what you're proposing because they're more immediately concerned with how to overcome social anxiety, even just how to say "hi" to a girl. In short, their immediate concern is getting their lives together enough to simply be able to converse with and attract women.

Probably in the back of their minds is the knowledge that they can grab a copy of the highly-touted "Sex god Method" when the time is right in the future. A 4 year old learning to ride a bike with training wheels simply can't conceive of the feeling of twisting the throttle of a Harley and commanding that raw power, even though he has a vague understanding that he might do that someday.

Hence the perceived disinterest and the subject-changing.

 

[Huffman]

Hey Jay Julio, if you're not opening the website, would you mind to share some of the material you were planning on putting there?

 

[JulieWatson31]

Jay Julio.

A big yes please. I need to improve anyway I can and keep on the journey of improvement.

Your posts are fascinating.