"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Day 51:

Seeing an upward trend finally.

-Had a girl over at my house. She really wasn't my type, so I we just hung out.
She has some hot friends though. :)

-Hung out with some more girls today when we had nothing to do. This one girl is completely into me, but her friends are always getting between us. She's sort of the shy one of their group and her bolder friends are alway sitting between us and stuff.

-My life changes on Saturday. Getting my license, I have no excuse not to hang out on the weekends or whenever. I'll have a place to f*ck girls, a way to go on dates without it being awkward, and I will have the option to go out with girls from other schools. I could have three girls at once and no one would know! :eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrP said:
Day 51:
-My life changes on Saturday. Getting my license, I have no excuse not to hang out on the weekends or whenever. I'll have a place to f*ck girls, a way to go on dates without it being awkward, and I will have the option to go out with girls from other schools. I could have three girls at once and no one would know! :eek:
That's all good, but don't get discouraged if you're life doesn't completely change once you get a car. I have my license, and honestly, little to nothing has changed between me and girls. I blame it mostly on two barriers that I face though, which leads my to my questions, that I thought maybe you could help me answer.

So I'm in smart classes, so I hardly have any classes with any hot chicks what so ever. I know a lot of hot chicks casually, but I never see them and hardly talk to them anymore because I don't have ANY classes with them and I never see them. Now I do have like 1 or 2 classes with chicks I'd like to get with, but hardly any. How do I get passed this barrier?

My second barrier is that I don't have texting. I know it sounds like I'm making excuses but texting is actually a big deal in game. Since most chicks don't like to talk on the phone or wont ever call you, it's a quick easy way to keep in contact with them. It's also a way for them to approach you for once, because like I said, even if they had your number, they wont call you. So what do I do about this, besides get texting?

Just wondering if you could help, I'll post this in my thread later,

thanks
 

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AlexLefty said:
That's all good, but don't get discouraged if you're life doesn't completely change once you get a car. I have my license, and honestly, little to nothing has changed between me and girls. I blame it mostly on two barriers that I face though, which leads my to my questions, that I thought maybe you could help me answer.

So I'm in smart classes, so I hardly have any classes with any hot chicks what so ever. I know a lot of hot chicks casually, but I never see them and hardly talk to them anymore because I don't have ANY classes with them and I never see them. Now I do have like 1 or 2 classes with chicks I'd like to get with, but hardly any. How do I get passed this barrier?

My second barrier is that I don't have texting. I know it sounds like I'm making excuses but texting is actually a big deal in game. Since most chicks don't like to talk on the phone or wont ever call you, it's a quick easy way to keep in contact with them. It's also a way for them to approach you for once, because like I said, even if they had your number, they wont call you. So what do I do about this, besides get texting?

Just wondering if you could help, I'll post this in my thread later,

thanks
I know what you mean. My school has at least 2,000 students...
And it's split into two buildings, 9-10 and 11-12, so all my 9th grade girls from last year who were all over me, I never see anymore.

I also have the same problem with not being able to talk to girls in class, because they're on the other side of the room or whatever.
I've found two ways to help that. One way is to be the extremely social guy in class and talk to everyone near you. (You would never guess that some girls of completely different types would be friends with one another)
Another way is to "chase her down" after class, if you can. It takes some balls, but you do have common ground already.
Bonus points if you have some friends with you (especially girls). :up:

And as for texting, don't worry about it so much. It's a lot more effective just talking to her anyway. Just call her up. Possibly facebook chat?

Good Luck.
 

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DAY 60

Got my license a few days ago. Hell yeah!
First thing I did was go out and buy a box of trojans. I'm gonna need em. ;)

Things are going well with school.
A's and B's on the midterm.

A lot more people say hi to me in the halls and everything.
I catch some of the hottest girls eyeing me.

Anyone ever notice the more attractive you find a girl, the more attractive she finds you?

Starting to work out more often. Starting to see results.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Today I opened three cheerleaders who were walking down the hallway. I walked around them and was like "wtf are you doing??" Well received, but I had to go a different direction.

I also talked to this other girl for a while, but she kept texting people.
That annoys the $hit out of me. Idk if she was doing it because she was shy or because she didn't care. I think it's probably the first.

There's this new girl in one of my classes who keeps eye-f*cking me, but every time I try to chase her down after class, she walks super fast and I can't catch her unless I would run. I don't get it.
 

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Hey MrP, was just checking out this thread and wanted to say what's up and good work so far/keep going.

Your last post clicks with me, I'm 17, my standards are extremely high too, and it seems if I'm at a place with 100 attractive girls I set the bar at the top 3; as was the case this new years. Got one make out with a gorgeous chick, but only saw about 3 others I would have bothered with but didn't get the opportunity. Whereas my mates all ended up with 5-7 hook ups, not all amazing girls but attractive none the less.

What's up with these standards my man?! Are they a good or bad thing?

PS. Sorry for posting my own story **** in your thread, not tryna hijack really.
 

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Mtheuriau said:
Hey MrP, was just checking out this thread and wanted to say what's up and good work so far/keep going.

Your last post clicks with me, I'm 17, my standards are extremely high too, and it seems if I'm at a place with 100 attractive girls I set the bar at the top 3; as was the case this new years. Got one make out with a gorgeous chick, but only saw about 3 others I would have bothered with but didn't get the opportunity. Whereas my mates all ended up with 5-7 hook ups, not all amazing girls but attractive none the less.

What's up with these standards my man?! Are they a good or bad thing?

PS. Sorry for posting my own story **** in your thread, not tryna hijack really.
I know what you mean.

You were at a bar and you're 17? How did that happen? :yes:
 

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I know what you mean.

You were at a bar and you're 17? How did that happen? :yes:
Haha sorry should have made that clearer, I was at a massive beach event, not a bar. Was pretty much packed with girls from 16-30.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My January Goals

I've been a bit lazy lately and seem to work better on concrete goals than abstract ones. For example over the summer I told myself I was going to kiss a girl before the end of the month, over and over again, and... I did. :)

So here are my goals for January. It may seem like I'm setting the bar a bit low, but thats just because of how bad things have been.

1. Make out with at least one beautiful girl before the end of January.

2. Get at least two numbers from girls by the end of January

3. Make at least three new friends and hang out with them before the end of January.

4. Go to the Gym at least twice a week.
 
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