"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Becoming a Girl's Emotional Tampon

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I had a blast with Skinny last night. Its kinda surprising that I met him at <my work name>, but God knew what he was doing. Skinny has so much in common with me. I enjoy every second we get to talk. I've not felt like this in a long time. I get so giddy around him and sometimes I ramble. I wanna slap myself but he acts interested and continues listening. I love talking to him because he doesn't think my goals are stupid. Hey, he even supports me in my goal of having a H1 one day! He is really smart too, considering he works at <my work name> and fixes computers like its nothing. Its fun watching him work. Ok, so I know you guys want me to stop about him, but one more note....He is so cute!

Anyways about last night, Skinny and I went out for ice cream at <ice cream parlor name>. We just talked and enjoyed ourselves. Then we stood in line for <concert name> for 1 1/2 hours. We both were cold and wet by time we got inside the building.
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