Becoming a "BAD "BOY"

[DiamondNtheRough]

Hey DJ's,

The one dreaded line that I have constantly been getting from women is, "You are the nicest guy I have ever dated"

This is told to me right before they walk out of my life and onto someone else not so nice (or so I imagine).

A little background on me:

I am very respectful towards women. Whenever we go on dates I always pay, do whatever they wanna do. Put them first. Drive to see them. PIck them up and drive them wherever. Mind my words and manners. I'll send little gay texts like, "thinking of you winkface*. If I've dated a girl long enough I'll even buy her flowers.

Let me give it to you from the horses, excuse me, ass's mouth....this kind of treatment towards women does not work! It appears they don't appreciate a goddamn thing I ever do. And I'm really getting sick of it. Its actually created strong feelings of hatred towards women in me.

My question to you all is this: How does a badboy treat women? What qualities does he possess that make the little girls just wet their panties at the sight of him. Because I'm mother fvcking done being nice. I'm on a mission to become the baddest motherfvucer they will ever meet. Its not like it could be that hard. Hell, I train brazilian jiu jitsu and I have lots of meat head friends that are fighters. I just always retained my "nice disposition".

Advise away. I'm all ears. :box:

 

[Strelok]

You are either competing for the trolling award or you are simply the victim of this modern era, listen girls are no princess,their sh1t smell so does her pvssy if they dont wash it, if they dont put water on it it's gonna smell like fish.

This should be enough to make you realize that women are no princess or goddesses, so would you treat one of your friends like that?
Do you treat them that way because you think is the right way or simply because you are taught that is the most effective way to deal with women and will grant you sex and validation?

It's hard to answer to your question mostly because it's the question to be wrong, the point is not being a bad boy in order to get women, the point is become a MAN who has his sh1t togheter who knows what to do and is owner of his life.

Whatever cool quality you find on a bad boy you'll see that a MAN posses it too minus the bad sides, so he has the girls and the respect.

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

I don't understand what a "Trolling award" is. I'm not looking for an award. Only advice. I've just noticed from life experience, working at bars, and my day job, and hearing friends stories that women don't like the "nice" treatement. I mean the do consciously. But subconsciously they completely disrespect you. Right?

Oh and to answer your question. I treat women "nice" because it appears to be the right thing to do. I don't stand my friends up on get togethers or not return phone calls or ignore people or use them. Is this how you treat your friends?

 

[st_99]

I think guys wanting to become "bad boys" to get girls is equivalent to girls getting fake tits because guys love big tits. Its misguided and usually makes you look like a fool.

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

I think guys wanting to become "bad boys" to get girls is equivalent to girls getting fake tits because guys love big tits. Its misguided and usually makes you look like a fool.

You're missing the point. I feel that I'm putting women on a pedestal and it thwarts my attempts at getting anywhere with them.

 

[Strelok]

I don't understand what a "Trolling award" is. I'm not looking for an award. Only advice. I've just noticed from life experience, working at bars, and my day job, and hearing friends stories that women don't like the "nice" treatement. I mean the do consciously. But subconsciously they completely disrespect you. Right?

Oh and to answer your question. I treat women "nice" because it appears to be the right thing to do. I don't stand my friends up on get togethers or not return phone calls or ignore people or use them. Is this how you treat your friends?

Taths the key of everything, it appears to be the right thing to do according to who? or what? to people,to morality?

According to people there is nothing wrong in doing humble honest work, however I never heard a father brag about his son being an employee.
According to morality it's wrong to accumulate huge amounts of money cause it makes you superficial however the christian pope wear
more gold than a ghetto pimp.

Words,culture and moral are simply means to control the average joe and keep people in line, what is right is defined from what a man think and from what
he gets out of it.
And in your case what appears to be the best thing to do doesnt grant you what you are looking for.

 

[st_99]

You're missing the point. I feel that I'm putting women on a pedestal and it thwarts my attempts at getting anywhere with them.

Yes, that is a problem, but it doesn't really have anything to do with being a bad boy. I've had the pedestal problem also. It sucks and it must be crushed, I agree. Putting girls on a pedestal is more about suplicating, you can still be "nice" without begging.

Think of it this way. You have a car you think is awesome and so you wax it, and keep it in the garage and always check for scratches or dings to make sure it stays perfect. Your other car is fine but you just park it on the street, that doesn't mean you kick it every time you walk past it, or throw rocks at the window. You just don't treat it like its the end all be all. Thats how you should be with women, you don't treat them like they are an irreplaceable priceless possession but you don't trash them every chance you get either, you still enjoy them and like to take them for rides.

 

[Scars]

I think guys wanting to become "bad boys" to get girls is equivalent to girls getting fake tits because guys love big tits. Its misguided and usually makes you look like a fool.

Agreed.

I've also come to the realization that being a "bad boy" often only attracts troubled woman as well.

You should strive to be a SUCCESSFUL male, not a bad boy. Then you can have all the girls, including the ones with a little less daddy issues.

-Scars

 

[Stagger Lee]

I think guys wanting to become "bad boys" to get girls is equivalent to girls getting fake tits because guys love big tits. Its misguided and usually makes you look like a fool.

:crackup: It's even worse than that. The breast implants probably work for girls a lot more often than trying to become a bad boy works for guys. Hey, maybe it all works out in the end and you have a bad boy with a girl with big breast implants lol.

Yes, that is a problem, but it doesn't really have anything to do with being a bad boy. I've had the pedestal problem also. It sucks and it must be crushed, I agree.

Isn't that what's the problem. A guy sees that being nice doesn't work so he concludes he must do the exact opposite and become a "bad boy". How about just stop doing those nice things?

 

[sinnerman]

Hey DJ's,

The one dreaded line that I have constantly been getting from women is, "You are the nicest guy I have ever dated"

This is told to me right before they walk out of my life and onto someone else not so nice (or so I imagine).

A little background on me:

I am very respectful towards women. Whenever we go on dates I always pay, do whatever they wanna do. Put them first. Drive to see them. PIck them up and drive them wherever. Mind my words and manners. I'll send little gay texts like, "thinking of you winkface*. If I've dated a girl long enough I'll even buy her flowers.

Let me give it to you from the horses, excuse me, ass's mouth....this kind of treatment towards women does not work! It appears they don't appreciate a goddamn thing I ever do. And I'm really getting sick of it. Its actually created strong feelings of hatred towards women in me.

My question to you all is this: How does a badboy treat women? What qualities does he possess that make the little girls just wet their panties at the sight of him. Because I'm mother fvcking done being nice. I'm on a mission to become the baddest motherfvucer they will ever meet. Its not like it could be that hard. Hell, I train brazilian jiu jitsu and I have lots of meat head friends that are fighters. I just always retained my "nice disposition".

Advise away. I'm all ears. :box:

ok lets start with basic. why are you a nice guy to women ? do you naturally feel like doing it for any random girl you meet or do you somewhere secretly inside some chamber of mind think that it will impress the lady and be attracted to you ? 90% of the times its the latter.

Now the key is to be indifferent. you don't have to be a jerk or a brute. however, you've to tease women ! teasing involves flirting, it means you mock the gal's sense of style but in a funny way so that she knows you're simply playing. This is what being ****y and funny is all about.

Also, you've to be the nice gentleman from time to time. There is nothing wrong with opening doors or being chivalrous but don't forget to tease them. Don't forget to put your hapiness above them. Don't be afraid to disagree on something. AND MOST IMPORTANT : BE INDIFFERENT. I couldn't stress this more. A bad boy doesn't care about the nice little gal trying to gain his attention. Especially when you're just getting to know the gal don't put her on a pedestal. You should put higher value on yourself.

 

[Warrior74]

Grow a backbone.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I'm shaving my c0ck in 5 minutes before I take a shower, before I brush my teeth, before I limber up my vocal cords (for speaking clearly to a woman), before I go out. Does shaving my c0ck make me a bad boy? I don't know. It just means that I know I'm gettin some tonight and it doesn't mean that I'm getting some from any particular girl either. Whichever one wins the c0ck fight gets the c0ck. It's a chore, but I'm semi-horny. Yes, I'd like to stick my tongue on her as5 and in her vertical smile, sniff into my lungs the washed (hopefully) bootyhole. Does this make me a bad boy? I don't know. I just know that I intend to do all these bad things to her, and I make no bones about it.

 

[PapiChulo]

Bad boys are sexy, you gotta have at least some attributes of a bad boy to get an edge imho. Plus, when you are successful it makes even more attractive to the majority of women. Cant say the same about unsuccessful bad boys, who can attract only a certain type of women.

 

[FairShake]

The key to my charm seems to be usually doing the nice thing but saying the bad thing. It works.

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

ok lets start with basic. why are you a nice guy to women ? do you naturally feel like doing it for any random girl you meet or do you somewhere secretly inside some chamber of mind think that it will impress the lady and be attracted to you ? 90% of the times its the latter.

Now the key is to be indifferent. you don't have to be a jerk or a brute. however, you've to tease women ! teasing involves flirting, it means you mock the gal's sense of style but in a funny way so that she knows you're simply playing. This is what being ****y and funny is all about.

Also, you've to be the nice gentleman from time to time. There is nothing wrong with opening doors or being chivalrous but don't forget to tease them. Don't forget to put your hapiness above them. Don't be afraid to disagree on something. AND MOST IMPORTANT : BE INDIFFERENT. I couldn't stress this more. A bad boy doesn't care about the nice little gal trying to gain his attention. Especially when you're just getting to know the gal don't put her on a pedestal. You should put higher value on yourself.

much appreciate advice good sir

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

I'm shaving my c0ck in 5 minutes before I take a shower, before I brush my teeth, before I limber up my vocal cords (for speaking clearly to a woman), before I go out. Does shaving my c0ck make me a bad boy? I don't know. It just means that I know I'm gettin some tonight and it doesn't mean that I'm getting some from any particular girl either. Whichever one wins the c0ck fight gets the c0ck. It's a chore, but I'm semi-horny. Yes, I'd like to stick my tongue on her as5 and in her vertical smile, sniff into my lungs the washed (hopefully) bootyhole. Does this make me a bad boy? I don't know. I just know that I intend to do all these bad things to her, and I make no bones about it.

if shaving your c0ck makes you a bad boy...then i guess i've been a bad boy since i was 15

 

[DiamondNtheRough]

Grow a backbone.

Alright then. Please tell me what sort of "backbone" you posses.

 

[TheJazz]

Grow a pair. They're women. They're the weaker sex. There's nothing wrong with being nice to them. But there's everything wrong with being their slaves/wives/girlfriends/cushions. Where you draw the line is what makes you an AFC or a Don Juan.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

You only do nice things for women in moderation and/or when they earn it. Treat them like pavlov's dogs lol.

Women like bad boys because it sends them on an emotional rollercoaster. The bad boy doesn't give them the attention that the AFC nice guy does so she wants it the most from him. It's just another case of wanting something you cannot have.