"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Become a Volunteer!

mikeraw

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I know there's an article about volunteering on the main site but I just wanted to give you my take on it...

Lately, I've had an itch to give back to society, so given my musical talents, I decided to volunteer at Texas Children's Hospital in Houston. I went to orientation yesterday in an auditorium at the hospital. There were about 90 of us interested in volunteering. Of these 90, only around 10 were guys. Of the 80 chicks, 40 were HB7's and above between the ages of 18 and 30. Most of the guys (besides myself, of course) look like total AFCs.

I was the last one to show up to the orientation and made a confident entrance and throughout the orientation I noticed chicks giving me interested looks. I think this is oging to be like shooting fish in a barrel. I asked about the dropout rate and was told that it's about 5%, so even if 5% of the chicks drop out, it's still a ratio of about 4 to 1... and I'm only counting HB7's and above.

I'll update throughout my 6 month volunteering span.

Oh, and did I mention that you make your own hours, it's only about 2 hours a week, and you can do pretty much any activity to entertain the kids? Video games, playing pool, reading to them, etc... It's just too easy to meet chicks!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lexington

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Volunteering is one of the best avenues for meeting girls. Let's face it, women tend to be more altruistic than men so there will almost always be a favorable girls:guys ratio for almost any cause.

Immediately, you set yourself apart because you're one of the few guys who is part of a cause that a girl is interested in. Plus, the atmosphere among volunteer groups tends to be friendly and inviting.
 

Duffdog

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Yes, volunteering will get you noticed.

Also, events that are designed as fundraisers for disadvantaged groups are just loaded with females. The one I attend every year for the Active2030 International club is absolutely off the hook. If you are after 25-32yr old hot business women, you owe it to yourself to attend one of these events. I have gone many times. Every time I went by myself, I left with someone else.
 

bob2007

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I think this works. I think you'll meet quality women too, and you come off as someone that is genuine, thrustworthy and honest. hahaha
 
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