Smooth Player 056
Master Don Juan
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- Jul 6, 2005
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We all have a fear of approaching women. Weather big or small, the fear controlls our emotions and actions.
We all have probably missed more than hundereds of lays or numbers in our lifetime. You see the girl, you want to approach, you wait a second too long and her friend comes. How many times has this happend to you?.......Certainly I am not a master of approach, but I am working my way to becoming one. You see 90% is balls, 10% is the confidence you portray the first second she lays eyes on you.
What I suggest doing to overcome your fear is....walk up to as many HB's as you can find and ask them for the time. That is, say "excuse me, do you know what time is it" "5:30" "Thank you".....Thats all..............by doing this there is NO chance of rejection..which is where all of our fear stems, and It will skyrocket your confidence and help you overcome your fears of approaching. Do this 50 times...your insecurities and fears of approaching will be gone..or greatly minimized.
When out in public such as a mall, always look like your there for a purpose...dont loom around looking like a dope with nothing to do...carry some bags...it will look like your there for a reason, and when you approach your target she will think you were BUSY shopping and happend to see her and wanted to approach spontaneously. Not that u faked the bags...and planed to apprach her. Women like spontaneous instincts and reactions...not planned, slow..and afc instincs.
The only thing that will eliminate your fears is just to simply approach....approach...and approach
Smooth Player 056
We all have probably missed more than hundereds of lays or numbers in our lifetime. You see the girl, you want to approach, you wait a second too long and her friend comes. How many times has this happend to you?.......Certainly I am not a master of approach, but I am working my way to becoming one. You see 90% is balls, 10% is the confidence you portray the first second she lays eyes on you.
What I suggest doing to overcome your fear is....walk up to as many HB's as you can find and ask them for the time. That is, say "excuse me, do you know what time is it" "5:30" "Thank you".....Thats all..............by doing this there is NO chance of rejection..which is where all of our fear stems, and It will skyrocket your confidence and help you overcome your fears of approaching. Do this 50 times...your insecurities and fears of approaching will be gone..or greatly minimized.
When out in public such as a mall, always look like your there for a purpose...dont loom around looking like a dope with nothing to do...carry some bags...it will look like your there for a reason, and when you approach your target she will think you were BUSY shopping and happend to see her and wanted to approach spontaneously. Not that u faked the bags...and planed to apprach her. Women like spontaneous instincts and reactions...not planned, slow..and afc instincs.
The only thing that will eliminate your fears is just to simply approach....approach...and approach
Smooth Player 056