"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Become A Don Juan

Deviant_DeWilde

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Becoming a Don Juan is not an easy task for everybody, it takes a certain amount of skill, of understanding, you need a bit of the know-how, and the only way you are going to get in the know-how, is by reading, learning and then practicing your new found abilities.


Believe In Youself

Believe in yourself, for only when you do, can you start putting all fo this into action, if you don't have self confidence, that, you have the ability, just how do you expect to get the balls to approach girls on a regular basis. Just, realize how good it feels, when you can sit back, and think to yourself, 'I can have anyone I want if I put my mind to it.' 'I have the ability, the understanding and the know-how to do this.' Just forget what others say about you behind your back, because you believe in yourself, and are better than they'll ever be, think to yourself, about how you are probably the only guy you know, who has the knowledge that you have. All these other guys are most likely still taking advice from their mums.



Take Action

Don't be like some of the other guys who use this forum, because some, sit at their screens for so long, that their minds are BUSTING with knowledge, and yet when they see a hot girl walking past, they do nothing. They make excuses, 'It asn't the right time.' 'She wouldn't have wanted to talk.' 'I didn't feel ready.' 'It's too scary.' A true Don Juan doesn't EVER make excuses for himself, and would always go after a girl he was attracted to. And if he didn't have the balls to talk, he would blame only himself. So next time you see an attractive girl, don't jsut carry on your own way, go and talk to her, if you want her, there's nothing to stop you from having her right? As long as you know what to do, she is yours for the taking. GET OUT THERE and put your knowledge to use. Not using this information, would be like the world's greatest artist, never painting a picture, the world's greatest musician never picking up an instrument. Just do it, and enjoy it.



Forget What You Have Been Told

Forget 'just be yourself.' forget 'girls LOVE sensitivity.' This is second rate information, if THAT. Just forget it, because most of the people who tell you this, are either older people who are describing qualities of a wife/husband and not a girlfriend like you would want. You must realise the differences between the qualities which lead to STR/MTR as opposed to a LTR. And hell, you can lead a STR/MTR into a longer one anyway. But be open to accept the information you hear, don't doubt it because it 'isn't sensitive enough.' Because once you start doubting it, you will never start using it. Only doubt it if it is something you KNOW to be wrong, just how you now KNOW that girls don't want overly nice guys, ones that kissass them.



Once you have learnt what skills you need, you have self esteem and self confidence, once you start putting it to work, there is NOTHING stopping you.



-Deviant DeWilde
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ripper

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Good stuff man.:up:

Lots of similar posts already but good nevertheless.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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FYI, this is what The Secret expounds.

Just felt that the topic has yet to be beaten to death..... :p
 

logic1

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Forget 'just be yourself.
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What does this mean?

I like who I'm.

Put it in simplier terms I like being real and not a fake.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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