"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Become a DIPLOMAT!!

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We all have been turned down by women..
We all have been hurt by women..

But we need to think beyond all that and become DIPLOMATIC

What do I mean by DIPLOMATIC ?

There is always a time in our life when we meet a girl that is super hot to us and immediately we fall into the trap of their beauty. Turns out the girl is probably an Attention Wh0re who just loves to get your attention. At the end we might get some action from her or prob nothing at all. You will leave pissed calling her a wh0re and you will say to yourself that you will never talk to her again, this is where becoming a DIPLOMAT comes into play. Don't react the way we all men usually do. Stop for a second and play it cool.
Don't lose contact with the girl, but continue to pursue her on a more FRIENDLY level. In turn the girl will NOT consider you a dic|< or a wuss, actually she will like you even more because of you not CARING what she is doing, but just being passive with her and DIPLOMATIC. (Your confidence is coming out, even if you are lacking it.) You will continue your DJing and have other girls which will drive her crazy.

Let me give you a little story of what happened to me...

I was hanging out with an HB9 a while back and the KINO was crazy and fun. Well we ended up hooking up, nice makeout session, everything was just perfect. Well the following week I saw her again and she was with a different guy. Damn I was pissed, but that lasted very little because I decided to take the problem into my own hands. I went up to her gave her a friendly kiss hello talked to her friends a bit (which are also hot) and went directly to talk to the girls standing next to her. This was the best thing I could do, I showed her how her being with this guy didn't mean anything to me, I was going to be MYSELF (meaning talking to her, being the guy I am). By me doing this I had her looking at me the whole night seeing what I was doing with the girls I had met.

Bottom line is..
Being DIPLOMATIC means to keep good relations with everyone, never give them a chance to say "hey, so and so was nice but then a di|<" - meanwhile she is the attention wh0re!
In turn you will keep contact with her, even invite her out and maybe you might get some in the future, which is dependent on you. This definately works, I have a bunch of girls on my cell phone that I invite out to clubs when I am in the mood to get a table or something with my buddies, being surrounded by girls is a great feeling and a confidence booster. It also helps your Social Value with girls you don't know..out of all those girls I am currently seeing 2.

Anyway this is my first TIP so I am not sure on how I did..but Keep and OPEN MIND with women. I will try and add on anything I missed. WE ARE THE PRIZE MEN!! Be confident!

Any questions feel free to ask! :D
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I agree with some of what you said, the best way to deal with an attention ***** is not to curse her out, not to try and law down the law, ect. (I had to learn the hard way,) but just simply cut her off and go about your buisness. Its ok to say hello every now and then but other than that mess with other women and live your life.
 

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Hey On_The_Top,

Yeah just live your life, but be DIPLOMATIC also... you might end up getting the wh0re etc. etc. Just be cool this will drive them crazy.
And HAVE FUN.
 
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