"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beauty in the eye of the beholder is only partially true!

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Aboleo said:
Dude, you're sick... maybe if she were about 150 years younger. Hell, I'm not even entirely sure that was a picture of a woman!
LOL, I didn't know what you were talking about at first and then I clicked on the link. No I wouldn't have sex with the old lady, I was talking about Alessandro ambrosio.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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personally, she looks smoking from far away, but up close, bit of a manly jawline, and the wrinkles around her mouth, i hate them on all women
 

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She looks nice on film for sure, but 123 pounds is pretty light for two inches shy of 6' tall.

In any case, what is pretty is far from universal. When I was in Africa last time the local non-Euro imports were all about the big hip girls. Women were even trying to pad their ass and hips out the way women in Beverly Hills get fake boobs.
 

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Deep Dish said:
However, be that said, as you get older your sense of attraction refines, shrinks, narrows. Your eyes become much more selective. I can easily be in a bar surrounded by 40 qualifiedly beautiful women, but yet be strikingly attracted to maybe only one or two, whilst when I was much younger I was attracted to 80-90% of girls.
I can't say I've noticed this at all. Where simply sex is concerned, I'm probably a bit more open-minded today than I would have been 15 years ago.

Is this just your opinion, or did you find this (also) supported by research somewhere?
 

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azanon said:
I can't say I've noticed this at all. Where simply sex is concerned, I'm probably a bit more open-minded today than I would have been 15 years ago.

Is this just your opinion, or did you find this (also) supported by research somewhere?
It's just my opinion and most guys I've come across seem to agree. I suppose the axiom of "results will vary" does apply here.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bigjohnson said:
She looks nice on film for sure, but 123 pounds is pretty light for two inches shy of 6' tall.

In any case, what is pretty is far from universal. When I was in Africa last time the local non-Euro imports were all about the big hip girls. Women were even trying to pad their ass and hips out the way women in Beverly Hills get fake boobs.
It's all part of feminist propaganda, they advocate BBW and being fat is beautiful. IMO fat models should be shot, the reason models look like that is because they put time into their bodies. They look after their body through diet and exercise. Fatties are ugly and nature made them less attractive in our minds for evolutionary purposes. I don't mind girls with big asses like Jennifer Love Hewitt, I'm not a fan of fat hanging out of pants and covered with cellulites. Ew!

http://www.myspaceantics.com/images/funny/fat--models.jpg

How is that pleasing to the eyes? Seriously BBW lovers are fvcked up people!
 

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Women who do strength training often look a little thick on film but in real life they are pretty tight. I still think 123 lbs at 5' 10 is on the skinny side but she's not too skinny. Remember volume is the cube of linear single dimensional measure, which is why BMI is such a broken idea.

A 5' 2 and 105 lb girl would be thicker proportioned than this model, but I don't consider such a girl chubby.
 

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Vladimir Horowitz said:
10/17 of the threads you have started have been about looks.

When will it end? Tomorrow? A week? Never?
If you don't like them, then ignore them. People come here seeking advice and information, not to argue.
 

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Vladimir Horowitz said:
We ain't talking about those nasty chicks. We're talking about the near unanimous hottest Victoria Secret model working today.
Okay, I get what you're saying. The answer is yes, I would totally **** that chick because shes ****ing hot!

wootapotky said:
LOL, I didn't know what you were talking about at first and then I clicked on the link. No I wouldn't have sex with the old lady, I was talking about Alessandro ambrosio.
Ha ha. :D
 

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Vladimir Horowitz said:
Same reason you commented on my opinion, I presume.



Really? Well, since you used the word "most", that means you've met at least 150 million American women. You REALLY get around...I mean big time. Or are you just tossing around made up statistics?



My girlfriend's Turkish. I'm well aware of the differences of women from nation to nation. They're essentially the same. A chick's a chick.



You want me to generalize 150 million people? Are you being serious? Everybody is different. Some Sri Lankan women are good in bed, some aren't. Some Russian women are dominating, some are submissive. Some Australian women are into tattoos, some aren't. Asking a question like that is like asking what good qualities black people have.
I was talking about AVERAGE numb nut. Just like the U.S. on AVERAGE has the most fat chicks = ugly. Unless you find whales hot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stuka1939 said:
The whole "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" concept only applies to men and women who are not strikingly pretty/handsome.

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So, if a woman is so attractive that she can pass for a Victoria's Secret Model, you can 100% guarantee EVERY other guy is drooling over her.
Not really true. I don't know what the attraction is for some of those VS models. Nor that oversized blond that died last year. I'm more inclined to find the girl cashier at McDonald's more attractive than alot of famous models.
 

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yeah, its all majority stuff

my friend thinks the Rihanna is really hot

but shes like a 5 or 6 and the most to me
 
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