Beautiful women make hard relationships

[jhonny9546]

Hi everyone,

We often discuss how men should behave to become more attractive, but one thing that's rarely talked about is how to behave in a serious relationship with a very attractive woman.

Imagine she's a HB8/9, highly attracted to you, respects you, and has chosen you. And, as Desdinova would say, you're #1 on her HSL.

Because she's exceptionally attractive, she'll constantly receive attention from other men and may also have insecurities, like many women do. So how should a confident, grounded man handle situations like these?
What did you do wrong in the past, and what are you doing right now, having learned the lesson?


a) Other men flirt with her, compliment her, or seek her attention. How do you react? Do you ignore it, set boundaries, or confront them?
Personal experience) I've seen many friends become insecure.. they would tell "who is this friend?"
Also, in situations like going out you and her, at a night out, at a restaurant, or simply in social situations, there will be opportunities for other men to approach her, validate her, or seduce her. These friends of mine have sometimes behaved by teasing the other man, saying to her, "You know, I'd see you together, but who knows, with that prominent forehead, he might mess up your hair when he kisses you," or if they were just upset, they would go to the man and angrily tell him to move away from her, or just try to devaluate or make fun of him.

b) Despite being beautiful, she's insecure and often seeks validation. She receives constant messages from other men. How do you deal with this without becoming jealous or controlling, but rather, live that situation within your own frame?
Personal Experience) You'll always be on the lookout for her contacting other guys, or you'll simply be aware that other guys will message her.. (You can't even imagine how many men everyday contact these kind of women..)
Even if you have her complete trust and openness to letting you see her messages, that's where the deception lies, and you'll never be able to trust her these days. (For example, a friend of mine used to always leave her WhatsApp messages uncoded so her boyfriend could see them, since she used Telegram or Instagram to cheat on him with other guys)

c) What happens if someone touches her or it's just the case a guy get phisical with her, in your presence, like this?

- YouTube

Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.

www.youtube.com

Personal Experience) I'm short but physically fit, and I've had to do what you see in the video in the past, but the man I did it to was the same height as me or just a little taller.
I wouldn't have imagined what I could do if the man were actually taller and physically bigger. (I'm 165cm)
What would you have done in that case?
So I think point c it's actually an advice to anyone which is inferior in a one to one fight.

Be sure to mention other points you had to deal with women like this in your relationships

 

[plumber]

for one thing its clear you tell that the issue is other men. i agree. for my friends i prefer men that don't play these tricks. but there is a good number that do and many of those tell they will not do that, right before the do it.

i have been in the situation a few times. Its always a good time to be paying attention to the surroundings. also better to frequent places you know and are known instead of taking the hb9 to places you don't know. it is a good rule to always scope out ahead of time any location you expect to take your date/mate/family to.

in my cases, i was in locations i knew. every time the woman shut it down, very directly. one time the guy continues, most of the tables around stopped what they are doing and looked at him. i did nothing. in all cases the men left and gave apology. i never did anything in any case like that. i think in an unknown place it would be different, so i avoid that setup.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Similar to our careers:

The further we progress, the higher the stakes get... The price of becoming the most formidable team in the league is retaining that status

 

[jhonny9546]

The price of becoming the most formidable team in the league is retaining that status.

I feel like it's not for me.
Don't get me wrong, I feel a sense of self-improvement in my nature, but at the same time, I don't want to fit into any "label" or be pressured to maintain a certain "image."
I simply want to improve and remain free.
You know that feeling?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Don't get me wrong, I feel a sense of self-improvement in my nature, but at the same time, I don't want to fit into any "label" or be pressured to maintain a certain "image."

Good luck with that

 

[Barrister]

Generally this is true for a couple of reasons. First, the hottest women have been coddled by society since they were young girls. The most attractive people are generally rewarded for their looks, and this is especially true with women. These women become accustomed to getting what they want for doing literally nothing other than existing and being nice to look at. This develops expectations that are many times unreasonable and sometimes untenable if in an LTR with one. They also usually possess the least amount of social awareness and age quite ungracefully (usually, they try to keep acting as if they were a HB 8.5-9 even when those days are long behind them).

Secondly, because they are very attractive, they are noticed by other men everywhere they go. Normally, this doesn't matter in and of itself, but given women's nature, if you begin getting on her bad side, she instantly has 100 options at her disposal that she can monkey branch out of sight to. It makes the relationship ground much more tenuous.

And yes - they are sometimes the MOST insecure of all women because deep down they know almost all of their worth is tied to those looks and those looks are not a permanent fixture.