"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The way I see it, women are lost when it comes to relationships it seems. They don't know what attracts them, they don't know the full extent of the pain and suffering they cause men. They cannot be trusted, everywhere a woman goes if there is an ounce of beauty they're going to be hit on, flirting, etc. Be in the moment and definitely once that happens any "exclusive" relationship goes out the door and she's just "enjoying happily". They flirt, men fondle her, take her to the nearest corner I imagine, etc. If she dresses revealing I pretty much assuming she's going to get manhandled in about 30 minutes by some "badboy".

What gives. I pretty much see all women or most women as having something desirable.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I can faithfully say that every man in this world is either bitter, or happy taking advantage and abusing unconscious women.
 

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TheZone said:
I can faithfully say that every man in this world is either bitter, or happy taking advantage and abusing unconscious women.
Well if that's the case, then you should probably just kill yourself and end the misery.
 

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Everything, EVERYTHING I see written about relationships, PUA material, etc. they all seem to be coming from a man with bitterness in his heart about women. All painting a brutal reality.

Even "spiritual" books.

Women are attracted to brutality. That's all they're saying.

Be brutal, women are brutal.

act bad, be bad. be sinister. abuse in such a way that is socially acceptable. go around disrespecting, she'll see that as "hot" and a thrill. She'll play games and put on a costume of being a prude girl who's never had sex in her life doesn't kiss, or date men, a man who treats her with respect is criminal. Yet 5 minutes later she's being manhandled by another man who's saying sexually abusive, and explicit vulgar things to her and she's lost in unicorn land as she's sucking his **** behind a garbage dumpster. I know, metaphorical, it doesn't HAVE to be garbage dumpster.
 

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The motto "all women are hoes/*****es" comes to mind of course. I don't like to believe it but I'm shown this all the time!

I'm practically a 25 yr old virgin. Ionly had sex once with a crack addict woman who was likely ****ing 2 or more men at the time not to mention the randoms.. and another obese woman who wanted to suck my **** not 5 minutes after arriving to the "party", drunk off her ass... and she was ****ing "ONLY 4 OTHER GUYS!!!!!!" as she told me, and of course not to mention randoms.

What the ****.

And I have severe agoraphobia now. I don't mix in with the crowds anywhere I go. I am deeply spiritually-minded but I am always disturbed about how messed up women can be, and battling with my sexual urges that make me very self-defeated. Heck, even spiritual people are all about just being brutes and "bad". I have no motivation to strive for anything while I am constantly disturbed by these things. And my "virginity." Heck I've not even had a single "friendship" or successful encounter with a woman my entire life. It's all been hell. I've been a loner and outcast my whole life, always been bullied too.

Sigh, I'm sorry.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SharinganUser said:
I thought the point of this forum was to help to eliminate virgin males, not to make fun of them.
 

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that is because men "approach" these women all the time. they probably have a dozen men each weekend night approach them with their "PUA Game" and bother the hell out of the them for pvssy. even if they wanted to meet up with everyone they couldnt.
 

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TheZone said:
I can faithfully say that every man in this world is either bitter, or happy taking advantage and abusing unconscious women.
I resent that and your characterization of me. I do my best being a decent honest person, if that's not good enough by your standards then go **** yourself you bitter awful person.

TheZone said:
The motto "all women are hoes/*****es" comes to mind of course. I don't like to believe it but I'm shown this all the time!
Everyone can be a piece of crap given the opportunity and the environment. There are women out there that are NOT hoes, but if you apply the right pressure enough times they can become that.

I'm practically a 25 yr old virgin. Ionly had sex once with a crack addict woman who was likely ****ing 2 or more men at the time not to mention the randoms.. and another obese woman who wanted to suck my **** not 5 minutes after arriving to the "party", drunk off her ass... and she was ****ing "ONLY 4 OTHER GUYS!!!!!!" as she told me, and of course not to mention randoms.

What the ****.
Wow. That was desperate. You could have at least paid for an escort and had a good time with not a crack addict and not obese woman.

am deeply spiritually-minded but I am always disturbed about how messed up women can be, and battling with my sexual urges that make me very self-defeated. Heck, even spiritual people are all about just being brutes and "bad". I have no motivation to strive for anything while I am constantly disturbed by these things. And my "virginity." Heck I've not even had a single "friendship" or successful encounter with a woman my entire life. It's all been hell. I've been a loner and outcast my whole life, always been bullied too.
You mean how messed up people can be. Don't think that men are immune from this. People in general can be very ****ed up but given the right environment and opportunities can strive to become much more... well at least a good portion can some are ****ed beyond repair. You haven't been around the right people. They are out there. There are plenty of nice decent women but you won't find them among the crack addicts that's for sure.

This is like shopping for a gem in the bargain bin at the supermarket. There's a reason all that junk is marked down to clear inventory and it's not because it's quality. Look somewhere else and for something else and be prepared to pay the price... whatever it may be. Usually good women don't like bitter men, so that's a large strike against you. You need to find a way to change that train of thought and a better environment to be around.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheZone...you got a whole lot of work to do.......with yourself first

Trust I been there, and it's not easy. It's still not easy
 

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This is how I look at it.

Love, romance, sex, relationships are a WOMENS game. They own it, the are better at it, they have the upper hand, that is what god has given them and they are not going to give it up.

Men are far superior in basically every other aspect of life (except child rearing), this is what women have. I just learned to accept that and work within this premise. Its easier when you don't fight it and just learn to work with it, go with the wave, not against it. You'll be happier and less stressed if you just acknowlege that women own this game.
 

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bigneil said:
I thought the point of this forum was to help to eliminate virgin males, not to make fun of them.
If they want help, they'll get it. If they want to post bull****, then they don't deserve the help.
 

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SharinganUser said:
If they want help, they'll get it. If they want to post bull****, then they don't deserve the help.
Seriously. That guy was acting like a freak. You can't take him seriously.
 

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by far the most depressing **** i heard. But if this guy truly want help. We can move him in the right directions. If he want to vent let him vent and go back to misery.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dare anyone to point out anything wrong the OP is saying regarding women. He's more AWARE then a large portion of the guys in this place.
 

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by far the most depressing **** i heard. But if this guy truly want help. We can move him in the right directions. If he want to vent let him vent and go back to misery.
Yes women are depressing by nature. That's just another fact of life.
 

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Yes women are depressing by nature. That's just another fact of life.

Bull****!! *cough*cough*


Women are the best fvcking thing i ever ran into.
 

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I resent that and your characterization of me. I do my best being a decent honest person, if that's not good enough by your standards then go **** yourself you bitter awful person.



Everyone can be a piece of crap given the opportunity and the environment. There are women out there that are NOT hoes, but if you apply the right pressure enough times they can become that.



Wow. That was desperate. You could have at least paid for an escort and had a good time with not a crack addict and not obese woman.



You mean how messed up people can be. Don't think that men are immune from this. People in general can be very ****ed up but given the right environment and opportunities can strive to become much more... well at least a good portion can some are ****ed beyond repair. You haven't been around the right people. They are out there. There are plenty of nice decent women but you won't find them among the crack addicts that's for sure.

This is like shopping for a gem in the bargain bin at the supermarket. There's a reason all that junk is marked down to clear inventory and it's not because it's quality. Look somewhere else and for something else and be prepared to pay the price... whatever it may be. Usually good women don't like bitter men, so that's a large strike against you. You need to find a way to change that train of thought and a better environment to be around.
If you're so decent why are you hanging around a forum where men are trained to be ****y and pleasurable but abusive towards women and everyone else, taking advantage of them, etc?
Most women seem to have a laundry list of expectations from men,living in this misandrist society.

About the bitterness-it's only natural. What can I do? When everything I try seems to be in vain.

You liekly know nothing about real loneliness. A man can do a lot but what good is he if he can't put it to use?
 

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because we don't want to be like you and end up dying a virgin and never reproducing... sometimes you have to accept the things the way they are and go along with what works..

If you go against reality, you get hurt!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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