Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Beautiful scene at the airport, inspired.

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Hey fellas,

some of you may remember I left on September 1st for 4 months officer training for my 2 year obligatory stint in the Cypriot national army. Returning last night, tired, drained, me and the rest of the lads. About 12:30-1am, last 4 of us going through the gate to get to our parents who we haven't seen for 4 months.

Friend of mine, drops his bags, runs forward arms open, his girlfriend does the same, squeals, and the whole jump-and-hug scene occurs as you see in films. They haven't seen each other in 4 months, and what I saw was more emotional and moving than me seeing my dad ( he had visited for 2 days in the middle of my training, so it was like "hello again dad :D" ). It would have brought a tear to my eye if I had stood and stared at my mate and his girl.

After 4 months of training, being away from your normal life, and having this presented in front of you was one of life's most beautiful moments. I can only hope that someday I am in my friend's shoes, and can live that moment. For now, I'm happy for the bloke and his girl, it was just an incredibly moving thing to behold.

My point? Life is so much more than people who haven't lived through certain things think.

Don't be materialistic, new-era punk/gangster kids, do something that will make a man of you, get some values, respect and love your country and family, go without the things you normally associate yourself with for some time and get in touch with what REALLY matters to you and your life, and don't get too drawn into the whole "how to get laid in 1 night!" aspect of social life, love does exist, WORK hard, don't be afraid to do anything, be honest, have dignity and self-respect, and don't sell out.

This has definitely been a lifetime experience for me, I am a changed man. Not the airport, the combination of my training and then the scene at the end was like a closed package of life-changing experiences.

Take care everyone, and love thy neighbor, unless he's Turkish in which case kill the bastard! (Blackadder, not some political slur).

:)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And live, do something, don't be afraid, experience life's different paths.
 

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Hey mate! How is it going?

I hope true love exists but I havent seen or heard of a girl that hasnt or wouldnt cheat.

To bad...

Hope we can talk some more!

Cheers! :up:
 
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MrS said:
And live, do something, don't be afraid, experience life's different paths.
Yes. The funny thing is once you realize what is really important you cease to be afraid of life, you want to experience everything you could possibly dream of, and you develop the resolve to follow through on those dreams.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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