haha,so ive made out with a few girls and not talked to/avoided them since they wanted to hang out more and **** and i just didnt want to,cause i fooled around with them "just cause". wel anyways,the other nite a girl came over,ended up makin out,and startin to go places,but she was already out past her curfew so she went home at 1130. well,i tried making plans with her to go to lunch or something and i got blown off haha. conversation with her is like talking to a wall, so this means one thing, i got beat at my own game, cause i kinda liked this one. (even though i know things wouldnt work out for a ltr anyways). but yeah, idk if any of that makes sense to you guys but i just wished to share that, just cause
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
beat at my own game!!
- Thread starter mrsoy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
What was the moral of the story? 
TDOT
Don Juan
Originally posted by Capt.Jack Sparrow
What was the moral of the story?
Even though it wasn't my story, I will provide a moral.
The girl was a icy brick wall when he called.
I sometimes get that.
We will call this Dilemma #1.
Sometimes I get the "push-off",
Her: "Umm, let me call you back later."
And of course she never does.
We will call this Dilemma #2:
Now he didn't talk about Dilemma #2 in his story but we will work this into the moral anyway, just because.
Dilemma #1:
When a girl is an icy brick this is what you say:
"If you were a bear
[pause]
and you escaped from the wild or the zoo into civilization
[pause]
and got scared and climbed up to the top of a tall utility pole in the middle of a crowded neighborhood,
[pause]
and got zapped by the transformer knocking you the flip out causing you to fall darn near 4 stories to the ground below
[pause]
while your whole body was smoking on your fall down from the thousands of volts of electricity that just ran through you
[pause]
and you hit the ground hard but still survived to tell the story
[pause]
What would you say to people when they ask you:
[pause]
"WHAT THE F*CK WERE YOU THINKING?"
(emphasize the word you)
This is an example of C&F.
It also is a proper application of using stories to attract.
It's also a good application of open-ended questioning. (see pimpology, the conversation in your copy of the DJ bible)
C&F should be used for the friggid iceberg girls.
Dilemma #2:
Now for the girl that uses the pushoff on you, do this:
{dialing}
Her: Hello
You: Yo Yo mommie mizzle in the place to bizzle, what's
up you? This is T to the Dot.
Her: Oh hey what's up, umm I'm busy can I call you back?
You: "Well you know I just called to tell you that I'm moving to Uzbeckistan tommarrow and this is the last time we will probably ever talk."
Will you make sure to check in on my uncle Dominic every now and then he has Manchester's syndrome, farewell."
{click}
This
#1: Puts the ball back in your court
#2: Should make her laugh
#3: Will cause her to really wonder about you, like, pretty hard probably
Call her back the next day and tell her that you decided not to move then take the convo from there.
Trust me, she will have plenty O questions fo ya!
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haha excellent
what ive been doing is giving HER the brush off, she said hi to me a couple times but i didnt stop to talk and acted like i had places to be. ill switch it up soon though so we start talking again.
shes friggen weird, shes like "in love" with some freshman, (shes a junior,im a senior) but when we hung out like a week ago,she told me they werent official, and she was like "yeah hes ok,he gives me free pot soo" so like she gave an excuse to liking him. then we hooked up and have barely talked.
sure i wanna hook up again,shes a cool girl. but i dont want a relationship, and shes not the only girl i think about hookinh up with
what ive been doing is giving HER the brush off, she said hi to me a couple times but i didnt stop to talk and acted like i had places to be. ill switch it up soon though so we start talking again.
shes friggen weird, shes like "in love" with some freshman, (shes a junior,im a senior) but when we hung out like a week ago,she told me they werent official, and she was like "yeah hes ok,he gives me free pot soo" so like she gave an excuse to liking him. then we hooked up and have barely talked.
sure i wanna hook up again,shes a cool girl. but i dont want a relationship, and shes not the only girl i think about hookinh up with