"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamMalone

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What are your opinion? Some think it looks gross (mostly broads) while some think otherwise. I think it looks masculine, manly and sophisticated if it it trimmed right and not a caveman beard.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SamMalone

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I thought this was an important topic gentlemen. If no one responds I will not bump this topic again.
 

ValleyDJing

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I don't have a beard. I have a chin patch and a soul patch deal. I love it...I think I developed an emotional attachment to it. I was talking to a marine recruiter one time and basically at the end I told him I wouldn't join because I refused to shave. lol! He couldn't believe I would turn it down for something so petty but hey, this is ValleyDjing were talking about here!
 

WhitePimp

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I have a full beard running from ear to other ear, and a soul pathc with it...looks like an anchor I guess! I like it
 

DogFashionDisco

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I love beards and 'staches. I had a pretty decent one going on like a week ago. I swear after I shaved that bad boy off, I dropped like 1 point on the looks scale. All the way down to a 9!

God I miss it... so very much. :(
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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i think it depends on the person who wears it. does their personality fit it? does their face fit it?
that kind of thing.

personally, i just dont like scratchy hair or sandpaper faces....but thats just me
 
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