“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Beard or no beard?

Josh Davidson

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1. Which looks better to most women?

2. Which looks better to most employers; especially for job interviews?
 

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you think so, I reckon stubble is less polarizing. depends on your overall look, what kind of beard you can grow.
 

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As far as I know, the beards that "attract" ladies are the ones who are not that long, trimmed, with a strong thick mustache and a shape that helps your jawline. Guys with longer beards are not the best on looks for women, unless he has some cool tattoos and a good shape. Honestly, as someone who has been in the army for long and has no mustache, I like growing my beard the Wolverine kind. Don't know if it's what they like and honestly don't really care, I have my woman and she loves it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1. Which one would look better on you, if any? That's what you should be asking. Not everyone looks good with a beard and not everyone looks good with the same style of beard.

2. Anything with style that matches you and doesn't make you look like a bum.
 

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1. Which one would look better on you, if any? That's what you should be asking. Not everyone looks good with a beard and not everyone looks good with the same style of beard.
^^^ THIS ^^^

Decide on your own style Josh. If you want to try a beard, go for it, see how you look, maybe try a few different styles for comparison.
But do it for your own sense of how you want to look, don't try to copy what works for someone else. We're all different.

Personally, I don't like myself with a beard, and I think I look older - So I stay clean-shaven.
Tried it - didn't like it... FOR ME!
 

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Beard is preferred by most ladies
True.... too bad, I hate beards, hate 'em. I grew one in Afghanistan since it was sort of recommended based on what I was doing there, couldn't wait to shave that thing off my face. When Covid started, on a goof, grew another one... still hated it... off it came after a month. I think I looked better with it, but it just drove me nuts.

If you don't like them, don't grow them just because some chick might like it. If you can't really grow a good beard, don't try. Nothing looks worst on a dude than a cr@ppy beard.
 
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