"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Beard color. Not grey, but it worth dyeing?

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I think I look okay with a beard. I have good 'coverage' and it fills in pretty well. The biggest thing I don't like about it though, is that so much of it is the wrong color.

My hair is dark brown. But in the middle of my face, my beard grows in a light red, with some very light brown.


I've sometimes thought about buying 'Just For Men' facial hair coloring to make it all match. I poked around on Google, though, and I never found anything about people using this product besides for grey hair.

My other choices are to just keep it (it's probably not as noticable as I think), or go for Neil Young sideburns or Lemmy mutton-chops.



Any thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Multi-colored beards are pretty sweet. Do not dye it until you decide it actually doesn't look good on you. Mine is the same way and when it is about finger length and neatly groomed I get chicks complimenting on it all the time, it's pretty crazy.
 
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Well, I tried dying it last night--I figured I'd just shave it off if it looked bad.

It actually looks pretty good I think. The color of the dye looks just like the color on the side of my face. Now it's a lot more consistent instead of having a bright red patch in the middle. There's still some red and red-ish hairs mixed in though, but it doesn't look bad.


I was never as bad as the guy at 3:11 in this video, though!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZcRjBgnb160
 
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