"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Beach!!!!!!!

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hey guys. i'm going to the beach in a few weeks and am looking to maybe meeting a few girls. any tips?

i am an okay looking guy but liking girls when your in 2nd grade(i did) was not cool and i got embaressed so i never really learned how to attract woman. i have friends who are girls but don't know how to attract girls. any tips?


ps- i'm a junior in hs to be, am 5'9, 120 lbs, nice guy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lsu03 said:
hey guys. i'm going to the beach in a few weeks and am looking to maybe meeting a few girls. any tips?

i am an okay looking guy but liking girls when your in 2nd grade(i did) was not cool and i got embaressed so i never really learned how to attract woman. i have friends who are girls but don't know how to attract girls. any tips?


ps- i'm a junior in hs to be, am 5'9, 120 lbs, nice guy
Approach them in the water, not the sand! always easier to break the ice there!

:yes:
 

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lsu03 said:
thanks. why the water?

I don't know...i just find it a whole lot easier to say hi or say something to a girl when she's in the water versus sitting down, tanning....the same thing goes for pool parties....just a physics/positioning type of thing. 1/2 the time they're sitting down they have a magazine over their face or whatever....

maybe someone has different experiences or advise. I go to more pool parties versus the beach (even though I live at the beach), and its just easier to talk when a girl is up, standing and being active in the water versus basically being 1/2 asleep on the sand.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow.........water over sand......SHEESH.

YOU SIT right next to some hot chics or better yet infront of them, SLATHER ON THE LOTION and fake like you cant reach your lower back.

Ask one of them to assist you..........Hey I am like a total SPF guru, can u help me spread this lotion around on my back.

If they do it........say "yeah thats it baby.........and can I get picture".....you need a lil work dont quit your day job sister......let me show U how its done.

If they refuse...........just squeeze the tube so it sorta squirts all over, maybe even hitting them.......say I am so sorry, I get angry when I dont get my way........then scape some off of them and say you got soft skin.........see I need help here.

Approach # 2- do U guys have any sunscreen I forgot mine........THE OLD BORROW SOMETHING ROUTINE.........AH YES.

APPRAOCH # 3-are those real...........NO i meant your tans, you look awful dark, how long yuo been cooking in the sun..........do you even have a job.

Its best to appraoch 2 or more.....not too many chics go alone, if you are really bold.....ask to lie between them.......I did this once and they actually made room for me.........I was like NO WAY DID THAT JUST WORK.......I had a whole routine if they refused .........it was like too easy.

appraoch # 4-hey can i lie besides you girls my stalker ex girlfriend knows I am here and might stop by. OR Me being near you two might actually increase my social proof with other women..maybe you could help me.

Bring some props; a radio (cool cds if you got em)...share the tunes

forget to bring the lotion......ALWAYS BORROW.THEN u can cap on them like what is this chic lotion.

A squirt bottle for misting........making sure to get a little mist on them.........its like a playful innocent little super soaker.

Shades-cool sunglasses GIVE INSTANT ATTITUDE

forget the sock in your underwear tighty speedo's, wear something comfortable.

DUNK YOR BODY IN WATER AND THEN SLOWLY WALK BACK TO SHORE....chics always look........its like your on TV and anything and everything looks good wet.

IF YOU are in the H20 the same time they are in.........splash a lil.

FRISBEE, WATER BALL, AIR MATTERESS............ask if they want to play.

bring some refrshments-----------with ice.........if you get to the point KINO with ICE ROCKS.......but thats for the masters level.

Say would U like a drink, bring extra.

Try some of this..........stuff , it helps
 

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just a little more info. this will be my family vacation(9yr old bro and 6yr old sis). i tried to bring a friend but its a family vacation. got any tips for this scenario?
 

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hit the gym bro, you need to pack on 25-30 lbs of muscle
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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working on it. cant doo that in 2.5 weeks though. lol

what main muscles should i work? biceps, chest, triceps?
 

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haha...NO

2.5 Weeks, if you know what your doing and your serious, you can make significant progress. First of all, start eating like a madman, clean calories, lots of protein, steak chicken, oats, veggies, fruits etc. 5-6 meals a day

Working out, start doing compounds, learn deadlifts, squats, do bb rows, weighted dips and pull ups, big movements, no isolation movements.
The reason for this is that bigger movements make you grow more by releasing more hormones, the heavier you go, the more GH and testosterone released, meaning you get bigger. Make sure your form is good and dont go TOO heavy, a back brace on the beach isnt good. 2.5 weeks youll see some good progress, 6 months to a year you could reach 150 and pretty cut, if you have anymore questions just ask.
 

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any workout routine in which i should do these exercises?
 

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ps i run crosscountry too and after our vacation i will begin to train. so will this extra weight be muscle or fat??? hopefully muscle
 

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lsu03 said:
5'9, 120 lbs
That's about how much I used to weigh when I was a junior in HS. I also used to run a lot so I was thin as a toothpick. Now I weigh about 10lbs more. If you're not insecure about it, you'll probably be fine. If you're insecure about it like me, well then good luck. Generally though, I would recommend eating more. I try, and I think you should too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont really care that i am skinny but would like to put on a few pounds. i am already starting to see a little progress! so are my friends!!!
 

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Beach approaches eh?

I live down in Australia, and during summer, the beach is about the only thing we every do.

Why don't you check out some of my FRs? I sarged at the beach like all summer and have a fair few beach FRs, they are fairly early on, should be easy to spot.

Links in my sig.

One thing, if you approach a set and their sitting down, tanning, I'd suggest you take a seat, or lie down with them fairly quickly. The position of power is always the seated.

Good luck,

-Lust.
 

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i wouldnt worry about your weight and stuff, if your going with friends, play some ball or frisbee, or better yet play volleyball, that way, you can ask other people to play
 
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