"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Beach queestion...

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LuckyDevil6

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To set the story:

My friend and I are going down to the beach this upcoming weekend... It'll hopefully be just us the 1st day/night, and i think my parents are coming down then 2nd and staying with us. Some friends of ours are going to be there too (2 girls 1 guy), so we might meet up with them later too. Theres this under 21 club there that we are thinking about going to... but its hard to game in there and get any kind of venue change, because the music is so loud in there, its hard to even really hear what people are saying, and they usually won't want to leave friends or whatever/don't trust guys enough to leave and go anywhere with them.... I can drive, so its not like its a big deal really...

But what my SP is, how would you go about attracting girls in this kinda enviroment.... i'm not stupid, its just hard to think of a way to venue change and go somewhere else with them, when its hard to even talk to them b/c of outside circumstances
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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hm...Virginia Beach or OBX[The Pit?]??
you're post jsut caught my eye. I was gonna hittup the Pit down in OBX last week, but my boy n I met some ladies on the beach who were like our neighbors. It was fun haha.

Anyways does this place have a dance floor? If ti does jsut walk up to some girl[who appears to not be with a guy lol] and smile and try and introduce urself and ask to dance. after a few songs say you're tired n gonna go get some air outside or something. Talk it up while outside. You should have kino going if you 2 were already dancing.

If theres no dance floor then the music probably won't be too loud. but that could make ti hard to find a hott chick there without a guy. But ti woudl also be a lot easier to approach. good luck bro, have fun.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LuckyDevil6

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Patrick, yeah theres a dance floor, and its REAL loud. its in Ocean city actually, called H20, and some nights they have foam nights... which basically lessen all girls inhibitions ;).... But hey, thats a good idea to go outside and get some air with the girls.... thanks for the idea, keep up the pimpin =)
 
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Originally posted by LuckyDevil6
Patrick, yeah theres a dance floor, and its REAL loud. its in Ocean city actually, called H20, and some nights they have foam nights... which basically lessen all girls inhibitions ;).... But hey, thats a good idea to go outside and get some air with the girls.... thanks for the idea, keep up the pimpin =)
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OOHHHHH that sounds good, man. I live in VA and my family want to go to Virginia Beach, but I'm gonna see if I could sway em to go to Ocean City in Maryland, so I can go to this teenage club u talken about. Yo is thur a website wit any information on the place u talken about?
 
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