"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Be yourself" is the WORST advice in the history of mankind!!

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This whole thread is very sad.

Being a Don Juan is being a Don Juan, not lying to yourself and everyone around you for the possibility of a little poon.

All the time it took to type this could have gone to something productive. Instead, it went into this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jaylan said:
If a man is happy with who he is, then he should be himself.
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Right, if you're happy with yourself, be yourself. If you're not happy with yourself, pretend to be the man that you're trying to become. In either case, you're at least coming from a position of honesty.

For me, when it comes to women, I like to be appreciated for myself. Not for some ficitional lie where she likes me because she thinks I'm an astronaut or whatever lol. If she likes me for a lie then she's not liking me for me. I know some guys think this idea is ridiculous ("as long as she gives up the pvssy, that's all that matters, dawg").

Aside from that, I see "Be Yourself" as meaning being relaxed and confident enough to show your natural wit, charm, and personality around women. Because there was a time when I would freeze up around beautiful women. I could be very funny and witty around the guys, and around the ugly girls. But when the real beauties came around, I'd clam up, I'd freeze. It took practice for me to learn to be relaxed around the hotties and show my real personality.
 
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