Scars
Master Don Juan
If you're a moralist DJ, you might as well turn around now. This tip is for guys with no morals looking to get layed, read this tip once you've finally "unplugged".
So let's jump into it.
Most people tell you "don't be the rebound", "it's bad news", blah blah. Well, that all depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for a long term commitment then it would be a bad idea, yes, but girls freshly out out of a break up are easy lays. And if you're smart, you will take advantage of the opportunity.
Firstly, you must realize that she is getting sympathy from many different sources, you don't want to be that guy. You want to be the guy that makes her feel good, amazing, special etc... and you cannot do this by talking about her previous relationship constantly. You want to be guy she uses to make her ex jealous.
So what happens to a girl after a break up?
Well, she is depressed obviously. She needs validation/attention. And she's looking to get her ex jealous. Even if she ended it, there are still feelings there, and to her, it'[s a big huge mind game. Don't let her "omg, I love my life!" facade fool you. Deep down, she feels sad. Most girls go through a phase of saying sh!t like this and acting like they're so much better being single, and then 2 weeks later they are crushed and heart broken.
It doesn't really matter which phase you catch them in (but the sooner, the better). She is on a mission to make her ex feel like crap, and if you're a decent enough catch, you can seize the moment. Make her feel good, and compliment her a bit more than you would a normal women, but don't over do it. But the key is, to make her feel good. You have to make it clear what your intentions are. Don't talk about getting into a relationship (it will turn her off), say stuff like "we're alll young, people come and go, we should just have fun", this is the stuff she wants to hear. She is literally looking for a rebound. It might not completely register in her mind what she is doing, but she is looking for a guy to fvck/take her mind off sh!t for awhile. So be that guy.
If she gets depressed randomly, then make her feel good, make her smile, make her feel like being with you is RIGHT. If she is deeply looking for sympathy just say something like "awh, I'm sorry babe" and give her a hug and a kiss. Amplify the kino, and give her sympathy but don't try to "talk it out". You don't want to hear that sh!t, you just want to get into her pants. So keep it short and simple, give her the validation/attention she needs, but don't end up talking about her previous relationship for an hour. Do your thing boy.
Also, remember she has other guys trying to get with her as well. However, most of them are doing the whole "im so sorry about your ex, you're beautiful, you deserve so much better" approach. The problem is, these guys are telling them with their words, you should display this with your actions. Be the fun, confident, sexy guy that she wants to "distract" herself with. Don't be the emotional tampon. You must remember, she is looking for a guy to make her ex jealous with. A pvssified wo-man who is in touch with his feelings and handing out sympathy constantly is not a guy she is going to be "proud" to show off. She wants a confident man with his sh!t together, who gives off the impression of being "fun" and "dangerous". She wants the guy who will truly send her ex into insecurity.
Like I said, it's a game. Play it right, get her secluded, and pound those cheeks. Her confidence is slightly down more than normal, so don't be afraid to compliment at times, but make her FEEL good. Make her feel like the moment and everything happening is right. "It just kinda happened.." is what she's going to tell her ex when she gets back together with him. Seize the opportunity, the window is small.
Good luck.
-Scars
So let's jump into it.
Most people tell you "don't be the rebound", "it's bad news", blah blah. Well, that all depends on what you're looking for. If you're looking for a long term commitment then it would be a bad idea, yes, but girls freshly out out of a break up are easy lays. And if you're smart, you will take advantage of the opportunity.
Firstly, you must realize that she is getting sympathy from many different sources, you don't want to be that guy. You want to be the guy that makes her feel good, amazing, special etc... and you cannot do this by talking about her previous relationship constantly. You want to be guy she uses to make her ex jealous.
So what happens to a girl after a break up?
Well, she is depressed obviously. She needs validation/attention. And she's looking to get her ex jealous. Even if she ended it, there are still feelings there, and to her, it'[s a big huge mind game. Don't let her "omg, I love my life!" facade fool you. Deep down, she feels sad. Most girls go through a phase of saying sh!t like this and acting like they're so much better being single, and then 2 weeks later they are crushed and heart broken.
It doesn't really matter which phase you catch them in (but the sooner, the better). She is on a mission to make her ex feel like crap, and if you're a decent enough catch, you can seize the moment. Make her feel good, and compliment her a bit more than you would a normal women, but don't over do it. But the key is, to make her feel good. You have to make it clear what your intentions are. Don't talk about getting into a relationship (it will turn her off), say stuff like "we're alll young, people come and go, we should just have fun", this is the stuff she wants to hear. She is literally looking for a rebound. It might not completely register in her mind what she is doing, but she is looking for a guy to fvck/take her mind off sh!t for awhile. So be that guy.
If she gets depressed randomly, then make her feel good, make her smile, make her feel like being with you is RIGHT. If she is deeply looking for sympathy just say something like "awh, I'm sorry babe" and give her a hug and a kiss. Amplify the kino, and give her sympathy but don't try to "talk it out". You don't want to hear that sh!t, you just want to get into her pants. So keep it short and simple, give her the validation/attention she needs, but don't end up talking about her previous relationship for an hour. Do your thing boy.
Also, remember she has other guys trying to get with her as well. However, most of them are doing the whole "im so sorry about your ex, you're beautiful, you deserve so much better" approach. The problem is, these guys are telling them with their words, you should display this with your actions. Be the fun, confident, sexy guy that she wants to "distract" herself with. Don't be the emotional tampon. You must remember, she is looking for a guy to make her ex jealous with. A pvssified wo-man who is in touch with his feelings and handing out sympathy constantly is not a guy she is going to be "proud" to show off. She wants a confident man with his sh!t together, who gives off the impression of being "fun" and "dangerous". She wants the guy who will truly send her ex into insecurity.
Like I said, it's a game. Play it right, get her secluded, and pound those cheeks. Her confidence is slightly down more than normal, so don't be afraid to compliment at times, but make her FEEL good. Make her feel like the moment and everything happening is right. "It just kinda happened.." is what she's going to tell her ex when she gets back together with him. Seize the opportunity, the window is small.
Good luck.
-Scars