"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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be the guy who people talk about

playa99

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the title is self explanatory really, but how do you become that guy, simple, do stuff. anything s long as people talk about u on the corridor, pull moonys, be annoying tell jokes its up to u, girls will notice that other guys talk about u wen u are not there. If u are being talked about u r not a boring guy u must be interesting and things must happen when you are around. Girls dig that
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PUK

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do some crazy **** like steal a teachers car and drive through the school
u would never be forgotten
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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sooo was your post a question... or were you asking a question in attempt to answering it to give advice...?
 

SenorSuave

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I think it was suppose to be an answer.
 

Axcell

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Well, there are some girls I know that think about me. It's very simple - talk to ALOT of girls that know each other. I tend to tease many girls, and many girls bring me up in their conversations when they are together. They would be like "SO (my name)" And BAM.. a discussion about me sparks. It is all about setting yourself apart from other guys and having guts to talk to many women at the same time. By doing this, you tend to meet even new woman, because they introduce you to their friends and so on and so forth.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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