Be pleasant if you want my d!ck

[TheMonkeyKing]

As we know, upon first meeting, women will be (sh!t) testing a new man to test his 'worth' as a potential mate. Whatever your personal thoughts or feelings about this, it is an evolutionary mating strategy that we all have to learn to live and deal with.

The trick is to reciprocate this strategy towards women. We should be testing, or at least covertly evaluating worth from the very start also. To exemplify the point here is a quote from our friends at The Mask and Rose (one of my preferred blogs), under an article of the same title:

"....this women genuinely believed that she was entitled to my time, attention, weed and sex completely regardless of her behaviour."

http://themaskandrose.wordpress.com/2014/07/23/be-pleasant-if-you-want-my-****/

In other words gentlemen, be savvy in your dealings with the fairer sex. Give yourselves as many options as you possibly can. And hold true standards that go beyond the aesthetics.

 

[Stugots26]

I cannot agree with this more.

Weeks ago I was operating from a scarcity mindset, now I've got an abundance mindset and my standards for treatment by women have skyrocketed. Only women with great attitudes survive if they want my d!ck, because my approach has been exposing those with bad attitudes for the soul-sucking brats they are.

I've got a woman planning a surprise date for me on Friday. A multimillionaire surgeon a decade older than me, totally alpha female, in another city with amazing fake tits who flew me there for the weekend and worships the ground I walk on and who's doing 100% of the chasing. A third who I'm really enjoying time with as well.

As well as women who I haven't met up with yet who are struggling to learn that the more they struggle for control rather than just let me know when they're free so I can set a date, time, and place to meet, the harder it will be for them. All they have to do is show up, look hot, and have fun. Gradually, when I let the hamsters run in my silence, when they're not cooperating, they figure out that they're just going to have to let me have control and relent (probably because they like how different it is from their other options who are all beta chump supplicants).

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I've got a woman planning a surprise date for me on Friday. A multimillionaire surgeon a decade older than me, totally alpha female, in another city with amazing fake tits who flew me there for the weekend and worships the ground I walk on and who's doing 100% of the chasing. A third who I'm really enjoying time with as well.

Even though fake t!ts aren't my thing, that's an awesome story!

Just really coming out of a moment of scarcity myself and a lot of old plates are hitting me up; like 5-6 in the last week.

 

[Stugots26]

Good for you, that's awesome. There's one plate that I've fvcked who will be like when she sees how different things are and how much my expectations have risen when she comes back around.

The most amazing thing is...

I pepper conversations with each of these women, including a fourth last night - and they all have great attitudes - with dialogue about the male-female dynamic, and they all admit that the alpha approach is the only one that they actually respond to, even though they like to publicly claim otherwise.

The one who flew me out says that she's usually chased relentlessly and expects guys to chase her. And my response is usually a smug smile, and asking, "And how far does that get them with you?" And she holds up her hand to make a zero, while giggling. She runs a business managing at least 50 people and she has told me that after being in her masculine at work she needs a man more alpha than she is to get her back in her feminine, and anything less is weak and unattractive.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Exactly right man. Sounds like you're playing the good game.

In my late teens and early twenties, I was highly independent and probably notched about 40 by the age of 24-25. Womens' behaviours were not an issue for me because they were literally blowing my phone up. I would pick up and date 8's and 9's one after the other in college with almost minimal effort.

Then came the beta-provider, settling-down inclination in my mid-twenties; which I obviously absolutely failed at. I provided and what have you, regardless of my woman's behaviours, all the while being very sceptical about 'game'. I was a door mat and I fully accept that now.

I am still sceptical about certain aspects; I am not a big advocate of pick-up, preferring to concentrate on being as fun, naturally alpha and independent as possible. As you describe yourself, this is what most women are looking for. I am not particularly tolerant of half-hearted, half interested birds, pushing them out to the periphery when they get flaky.

I still have a couple of flaky chicks which only serves to show me I still (and will always) have work to do. I am keeping them on standby though, to see if I can turn the situations around in the coming months and years.

Generally becoming more and more confident again with each new broad I meet; getting back to the state I was at in my early twenties.

 

[3agle 3yes]

I made a thread that was essentially saying the same thing and I came under attack with the majority of the replies.

I suspect most guys have low standards and just desperately want to f*ck, they're willing do it at all costs.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I suspect most guys have low standards and just desperately want to f*ck, they're willing do it at all costs.

I suspect you're right, 33.

I have had a few birds over the course of the last year who, though not directly rude, were not particularly pro-active. I appreciate that this has as much to do with me as an option than it does them, but I'm addressing that.

It seems the moral of the story is that the better an option one makes of himself, the more options he is afforded and the less sh!tty behaviour he has to endure; personal growth and success with women therefore being inherently linked - stating the obvious, somewhat I realise.

For me, if I'm gonna invest my time and effort, it might as well be with a personable individual, therefore allowing the opportunity some room for growth.

Link your thread if you can find, 3agle....?