"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SmooveMooves

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Yoo,

Do you know what you are? If you're reading this, chances are, you're a grown ass. man .

Do you know what grown ass men do?

They make their own decisions whether good or bad and are confident in those decisions

They don't break for anyone.

The decision can even be wrong, but as long as YOU made it, that's what counts,

So if a chick wants you to come to a family get together and you dont feel comfortable?

You tell her no.

If she gets mad, let her be mad, but in the end she will learn to respect your choice.

If a chick wants to see you but you have something important to do.

You tell her no.

Even if it's your mom, and she's wanted you to be the most prestigious doctor in all of the lands and bring honor to your family, but you rather be a comdian?

Man up, make your own decisions, tell her no.

Even your mom has to respect you as a man.

This applies to everything,

Setting up dates? forget "can i take you out sometime" your a man it becomes "We're going to dinner, I'll pick you up at 7"

Picking a place? You decide, "Arby's"

And so on.

Remember, men are leaders, they should easily be able to make decisions, right or wrong, good or bad.

Become stone, and never forget

Only YOU can be YOU.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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VladPatton

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Correct, and I agree 100%. Problem is there are so many ''modern women'' nowadays that just can't stand not calling the shots.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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