Q: How do you be magnetic to women?
A: Have standards
Make a list. Write down anything you want and don't want in a woman. Then go out and look only for women who have what you want. This can be anything you like eg you want blue eyes,optimistic personality etc
The reason for writing out a list is it helps you to focus the mind as you can clearly see the traits you're looking for on paper.
What this does is makes you more choosier which in turn makes you higher value which in turn attracts all sorts of women. Instead of chasing women, women are now chasing you and WOMEN LOVE THE CHASE! You are a hard target now which is a major turn on.
This doesn't mean you can stand in a corner and not talk to anybody. Its a way to improve your inner game. When you have high standards and you are talking to women you are the one who is asking the questions. You're the one who is observing the woman to see does she meet your standards.
By concentrating on wheather the woman meets your standards you are not concentrating on wheather you are good enough for her. This makes conversation easier since you're not being as self conscious as usual.
You'll feel more at ease with yourself and that will put the woman at ease talking to you. Nervousness is like a disease that spreads and when 1 person is nervous talking to another it's makes the other person feel uneasy.
Believe me women will sense this high value attitude and know they'll have to work to get you. They know you are prepared to walk away at any time. They are working to get you now i.e. you are attracting them like a magnet.
Disapline is key here though. When women are interested do not go for the first one who has not many matching qualities on your list. Whats the point in writing a list otherwise. If you have a girlfriend that you don't feel great about then walk away. Aim for something better and you'll find it'll be worth the wait. Don't settle for second best!
A: Have standards
Make a list. Write down anything you want and don't want in a woman. Then go out and look only for women who have what you want. This can be anything you like eg you want blue eyes,optimistic personality etc
The reason for writing out a list is it helps you to focus the mind as you can clearly see the traits you're looking for on paper.
What this does is makes you more choosier which in turn makes you higher value which in turn attracts all sorts of women. Instead of chasing women, women are now chasing you and WOMEN LOVE THE CHASE! You are a hard target now which is a major turn on.
This doesn't mean you can stand in a corner and not talk to anybody. Its a way to improve your inner game. When you have high standards and you are talking to women you are the one who is asking the questions. You're the one who is observing the woman to see does she meet your standards.
By concentrating on wheather the woman meets your standards you are not concentrating on wheather you are good enough for her. This makes conversation easier since you're not being as self conscious as usual.
You'll feel more at ease with yourself and that will put the woman at ease talking to you. Nervousness is like a disease that spreads and when 1 person is nervous talking to another it's makes the other person feel uneasy.
Believe me women will sense this high value attitude and know they'll have to work to get you. They know you are prepared to walk away at any time. They are working to get you now i.e. you are attracting them like a magnet.
Disapline is key here though. When women are interested do not go for the first one who has not many matching qualities on your list. Whats the point in writing a list otherwise. If you have a girlfriend that you don't feel great about then walk away. Aim for something better and you'll find it'll be worth the wait. Don't settle for second best!
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