"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Be Interesting

backbreaker

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ASk yourself this question.. would you go out on a date with you? The first thing you have to do, before you can get a woman in bed is have her be attracted to you, but she cannot become attracted to you until she is first, interested in you. For her to become interested in you, you have to be interesting


Are you interesting?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Great point..however careful not to only speak of yourself. Hold yourself to a higher standard and remember the quote..."the best way to be interesting, is to be interested in others." Find the girl's hot buttons, ie: the subjects you will hear her mention more than once, and pry into them, speak with enthusiasm, and excitement, ask open-ended questions, show tacit agreement, phrases like "that's interesting". Imagine if someone was genuinely interested in something you cared deeply about, I guarantee in your eyes it'd raise her up a notch or two on the hb scale, same principle applies to the girl.
 
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