Be honest: who you were before financial/social success

[jhonny9546]

Be honest with yourself: Financial and social success instills self-esteem, and it's essentially a snowball effect.

How/Who were you without financial and social success, ?
How did you feel? What was your mood, your self-esteem, How did that impact?

 

[plumber]

sort of; yes but replace or insert money with anything else that you work for and become good at. gym, money, sports, women, ....

money is power.
muscle is power.
IQ is power, if applied.

power gives us self esteem.

the wise learn how to show just enough of the power.

 

[ValiantMale]

Great post idea. Man, I felt unmotivated to do things. It was almost like a sense of instability that just loomed over everything. I also felt like an imposter.. . because here I was helping others around me with their mindset but I didn't have much dough myself. Infact i used to jump from job to job with minimal progress each time..

My self esteem was lower for sure.. my mood was always changing too.. I found myself angry alot or overthinking life... I found myself spending alot of time online, reading, watching videos, blogging, but I always tried to get the wheels moving always..

I don't think I'm at full social success yet but doing well in the dating market, and financially im pretty abundant though I wouldn't say rich just yet.

 

[MatureDJ]

I feel that at my current net worth, I can begin to play BetaBuxGame, whereas before I couldn't; I think I need to hit $5M until I can really start splurging though.

 

[SW15]

I feel that at my current net worth, I can begin to play BetaBuxGame

Plenty of men base their entire ability to seduce women around money. Money is one component of Rollo Tomassi's "money, muscles, and game". There are men with money, average at best physiques, and average at best levels of charisma who can get some women. That would depend on how much money he has.

It is better to seduce women on looks primarily than money primarily.

 

[MatureDJ]

Plenty of men base their entire ability to seduce women around money. Money is one component of Rollo Tomassi's "money, muscles, and game". There are men with money, average at best physiques, and average at best levels of charisma who can get some women. That would depend on how much money he has.

It is better to seduce women on looks primarily than money primarily.

What if you are bad in looks for one very important metric?