"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Be honest. Are you a virgin?

Are you a virgin?

  • Yes

    Votes: 19 35.2%
  • No

    Votes: 35 64.8%

  • Total voters
    54

MrJibbles

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I did a search for one of these polls, but I'd like to get a more updated version... Be honest, SoSuave members, how many of you are virgins? There is a lot of great advice on this website, but I wonder how much of is backed by experience.

I'll start. V-card status elite, reporting in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wataf

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MrJibbles said:
I did a search for one of these polls, but I'd like to get a more updated version... Be honest, SoSuave members, how many of you are virgins? There is a lot of great advice on this website, but I wonder how much of is backed by experience.

I'll start. V-card status elite, reporting in.


I've been doing pretty good for myself past 2 years about 100 #'s 20 hook ups 10 slays had a girlfriend in there too ......Where u at in Canada could always use a wing man if your in b.c area?
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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I was back in High School but then I found this forum and got my game up. Far from a virgin.
 

Warrior74

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Forget about trying to see who is the "real deal" or not. Just try things and see what works for you. Even the guy who sounds like he's the perfect DJ with tons of notches and 5000 post could be a fat chic from Australia. It's the internet, nobody knows your a dog yah?

Also the more you practice, the more you know who you can trust because they will reflect what you have already learned about first hand. Of course then you may not need advice from them at that point. So...in conclusion...practice.
 

shizz702

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Lol I lost my virginity at 13. I don't know that was just the way it was, grew up fast.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamTheHobit

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Virgin by choice lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JonJaper

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Zodiac

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Lived near a college town in High School, lived off campus near a bar for a bit of time in college and recently moved to Florida near a few bars.

Haven't been a Virgin in over 6 years and its not hard to find 7+ women on a bad day around here. I owe it all to this site honestly: It told me to focus on my career first as I did.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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