"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Be fun to be around

eddie money

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This is a somewhat obvious tip, but I think some DJ's might find it useful.

Be fun to be around! Think about it, how do you choose your friends? Who do you choose to be around? Most likely these people are ones you perceive to be "fun". Women are the same as us in this regard. They want a man that's fun to be around and they have a good time around.

I think about the time I was getting laid the most. I was a wildman in those days, always having a good time around women. Partying it up every second I had, being the life of the party.

Consider the jackass who tears it up on the dance floor and can't dance worth a damn. This guy has women surrounding him many times. Why is this? He's fun! The guy knows how to have a good time and this is attractive to women.

Now, I realize you can cite many examples where the women are with a total jerk who you wouldn't consider "fun" at all, but in some odd way she probably thinks he's really fun to be around.

I am reminded of my past relationships also, wherein if I got to serious with the girl, things would soon end. When the fun ends, the girl goes in my experience.

So, in conclusion, GO HAVE FUN! (with girls of course). SEE YOU AT MARDI GRAS!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chase Dat Skuht

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How do you keep away from being a goofy idiot but still having fun?

It seems to me that there would be a line between being a dork and having a good time with people and then being laughed at.

I guess if yuore confident with yourself it doesnt matter either way
 

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eddie money said:
This is a somewhat obvious tip, but I think some DJ's might find it useful.

Be fun to be around! Think about it, how do you choose your friends? Who do you choose to be around? Most likely these people are ones you perceive to be "fun". Women are the same as us in this regard. They want a man that's fun to be around and they have a good time around.

I think about the time I was getting laid the most. I was a wildman in those days, always having a good time around women. Partying it up every second I had, being the life of the party.

Consider the jackass who tears it up on the dance floor and can't dance worth a damn. This guy has women surrounding him many times. Why is this? He's fun! The guy knows how to have a good time and this is attractive to women.

Now, I realize you can cite many examples where the women are with a total jerk who you wouldn't consider "fun" at all, but in some odd way she probably thinks he's really fun to be around.

I am reminded of my past relationships also, wherein if I got to serious with the girl, things would soon end. When the fun ends, the girl goes in my experience.

So, in conclusion, GO HAVE FUN! (with girls of course). SEE YOU AT MARDI GRAS!
Hey,

(I got internet connection for a bit of time)

I absolutely 110% agree with this tip. This is a must read tip for every and all DJ's that are out there.

I just talked with my girlfriend (just made it official two days ago :cheer: ) and she said that I was not even the least bit attractive to her the first time that I met her, but as I hung out with her more and more she said that she became attracted to me. Looks? Hell No. Fun? Hell yeah, she said that I added spice to her life that very few people have ever been able to do in such a way that I have.

I just make people laugh and have a good time. Screw looking foolish! You may save pain, but in the same spirit of anything else, regret will be the most painful. So, make mistakes and have fun. Look foolish. You will never get the chance to have fun in that moment. Even now, you won't get that chance.

So, what I am saying is live your life to the max and have fun with it.

Example: I got kicked out of Fuddruckers (sp) for molesting a male statue of elvis. I was just having fun and was making everyone laugh. The manager didn't think the same way.

Just enjoy life.

comic_relief
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being fun and positive is always important...
 
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